For the love of god GO GET YOUR CHILD. Stop being wishy washy and just go do it. Maybe you won't be successful and will then have to get your writ, but for the love of god just go do it! Call the police when you get there if they won't give you the child...but DO IT.Thank you. I only stated "kidnapping" as that is what DYFS considered it with my case when I requested return of my children and he refused and kept them outside of the time frame where he had my "permission" to keep them. Needless to say after they got involved, he lost visitation rights via court order in the end, and has not seen them in 3 years.