The claim of conception in MT? In her request to change venue. Also in the request, she gave the due date in order to support her claim. It doesn't appear that anyone checked the math.
They will check the math, so it is apparent that her WA attorney is aware of the same state statutes from both states that I cited and since the judge took jurisdiction in August but only made temp orders pending the actual birth which would give some clue as to date of conception/jurisdiciton. There is confusion re how pregnancies are dated so I will be careful how I qualify these terms. So aparently the judge allowed for two options but the 9-2-5 birth of a full term child without induction sugests a child conceived in Washington. DOn't worry, domestic relations judges know how to calculate due dates even when mom claims to be irregular, that is why the medical records will be needed since she made an issue of the date of conception. The Washington judge wil not be too happy with her.
This is one thing that has ticked me off. We were not told the due date. She would never give it to the father. She wouldn't said why. She just would not give it. UNTIL: She was trying to support her conception theory. THEN, in the statement, she stated the due date. Just days before that statement, she claimed in her response to the father's attorney, that she couldn't release the date because she was fearful of the father and the father's family. So, we believe her orginal due date was 9/2/05. Which is the day the baby was born.
That may be the reason, but more likely the reason is that she is not sure who the father is in addition to the embarassment of a "good" unmarried Christian girl being pregnant, no doubt she got a lot of legal advice early on.
Not sure but she called the father on 12/31/04 saying she "thought" she was pregnant becausse she was "late".
My guess is that she missed her period in mid December, indicating a conception date between 11-20-4 and 12-10-4, when she initiated the breakup. Then checked out her options before telling your son that she thought she was pregnant, hoping that he would agree to an abortion, so she could make him look like the responsible onem thus the claims of coersion. Having an abortion would also keep her sexual history private and the chance that there could be another father.
Not sure. Father asked for this info before and later and was told to get lost.
Info about ultrasounds would have provided clues to due date, and patenrity/jurisdiction.
8 lbs (no info on the length)
Normal full term baby! The average baby's birth weight at full term is 7 to 7.5 pounds (3280g to 3400g), a first pregnancy birth +/- weeks with avg gain 2 lbs in the last month. So an 8 lb baby is perfectly normal and not grossly postterm and unlikely conception occured prior to mid November. This child was conceived in Washington state.
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If labor was induced because the baby was post term you would have known because that would have helped her case, something she needed after the court date in Washington.
No, sould they have been? Or should they be?
Yes they should be because the ones in Washington state will indicate what she told the doctor in the begining and what any tests indicate insofar as dating the pregnancy. If she didn't have any prenatal care, when she has good insurance is also suspetious. They should be able to subpoena these to determine conception and jurisdiction because hse made an issue.
Yes and father particularly remembers 11/20/04 (a significant date to him) as well as each week thereafter until mid-December?
This is consistant with the 9-2-5 birth.
lol. SHE never claimed this. Her mother to me, stated that my son was not the father, God was the Father and that we should expect the outcome to be in His hands. Now let me explain something. I know what she was trying to say. The problem with h er statement isn't that she believes that God is sovereign, it is that she is trying to tell me my son has no rights. Well, if we go THAT way, neither does the mother. They use the spiritual side of things as more of a tactic to win an argument but aren't smart enough to finish it. Anyway, again, I am stating my opinion, but I think I am right on in terms of their believes. They're kooky.
I know she never did, however the statement may come in handy. Your son should request a DNA test even though he is willing to acknowledge paternity. There are too many lies and omissions in her story that are not consistant with the facts. Anything that will point out the fitness of the mother or intent to deny him his parental rights, will help your son's case. Maybe if the maternal grandmother think's God is the baby's father, she should pay for the DNA test instead of your son.
I believe, 1/2/05 was when she learned via home pregnancy test. The breakup was initiated by her in mid-December.
That is consistant with conception 10 days or more earlier depending on the test.
No info. I do believe she has private medical through her father's insurance until the age of 25. Long story but we helped her with a small medical situation in Sept. and if I remember correctly, this was the case. She isn't a student, so, if correct, it sounds like great insurance.
If she had used WA medicaid or WIC that would have established certain facts as would fialure to obtain prenatal care. The records may shed some light.
They were in MT for 5-7 days. Maybe that is why she didn't have the abortion, but, because of the baby's due date and birthdate, I doubt that the conception took place the first week of November.
I concur.
Okay, you have just asked a lot of questions. What are you thinking?