sorry to say this but court ordered and prison/jail rehab doesn't work either. until a person hits rock bottom or dies they stay in denial and play the blame game. you can lead a horse to water but can't make them drink applies very well to adicts and alcoholics. until they realize that its them and not everyone out to get them theres nothing you nor anyone else can do to get them to see it. theres alot of alkies and druggies that do time, not just a year or two but 5 to 10 years that come out of prison and start right back up, even if they remained clean and sober the whole time, when its left up to them its back off to the races. i knew one guy that was kicked out of rehab 26 times, they found him with 10 empty family sized bottles of listeren, dead. the only thing you can do is step away from this person and let her self destruct, she will either seek help or die. if you try to help her she will take you down with her.