I had planned on asking the coach and the basketball mother who is my contact with the team if they had plans for lunch after their noon game tomorrow. If they had none, except for going out for lunch, we thought we;d have them come over to my girlfriend's house...that's where my children spent last summer with...they are familiar with it and love it there and again they all bonded and loved her nephews. My son actually also came up to her, as she stayed way in the background while her nephews and I went closer to the team to check him out and he went up to her and said hello. We were both surprised with my ex's negative influence on them. But, I totally understand...good idea about inviting them to a public place. We have church until 11am then are all heading to watch his last game at noon. It's been a good weekend.rmet4nzkx said:Congratulations! What a gift that they were having the tournament so close by, too bad that mom had to take such measures to deny your visitaiton. It is very good that your son came right up to you and that you had a chance to visit even if it was just one child. Is this the son who had been in counseling? Insofar as inviting the team to Pizza at your girlfriend's house. It would be best to make arrangements to do that with the coach or parents responsible for the whole team and would be best to offer at a public place rather than your girlfriend''s home, so as not to push that point too much, even though it is 1/2 mile away, unless some sort of celebration was planned already, this could cause delays in the return of other children.
Were you able to make any progress with the FLF offices and any opportunity to amend the minute order?
BTW, I had no real help from LA FLF and I think I posted on the other thread (asking IAAL for help) that we will be in Fresno early next Fri. 7/22 to file the motions and declarations, etc... before my scheduled session with the boys. I'll keep you posted.