I am dating someone who was involved in a bad auto wreck last summer, in which he lost his wife, his best friend, and his best friend's wife. He has a wrongful death suit against the other party's insurance co. His lawyer told him it would be very detrimental to the case if anyone were to find out we were dating. The woman who hit them was drunk and on drugs, and crossed the center line and hit him. It is very obvious the accident was her fault. My question is, how far will the other side go to dig up dirt on my boyfriend to try to lessen the settlement? I realize we need to be discreet, but will they start checking my bank accounts, watching our houses, etc.? I was planning on quitting my job and staying home to take care of both of our houses and get them ready to sell so we can build a new one. Would the other side be likely to find out if I did that? Any input would be greatly appreciated. I live in PA.