Gal

[Antigone*]

OK, but i know i havent brainwashed him. can we invite the GAL to dinner/ dates to see the interaction between us or how does a GAL make his/her presence

Oh puhleeeassse.

The GAL will not go to dinner with you. I'm done I'm pouring myself a double funsucker!

 

[Zigner]

Dear God -

Please forgive those that feed the trolls...they know not what they do...

 

[sandyclaus]

I have just heard that he is wanting to appoint one but i dont understand how he can even afford one. i would like a GAL if they realize what crap they have fed and brainwashed my son

More likely, the GAL will be able to tell how your kid really feels about things. Minus all the drama that you and dad seem to be feeding him.

Could just be that Dad's request is the best thing that could be done for the kid yet. Now the court will get a REAL picture of just how badly you have messed up on parenting your child. Poor kid will finally have someone that really understands the situation from his point of view and is willing to influence the court's decision based on what is really and truly in that child's best interest - not what YOU think that best interest might be.

I say that this will put one big check mark on Dad's side for me. It's about time someone actually looked after the child's best interests instead of their own.

 

[Antigone*]

Dear God -

Please forgive those that feed the trolls...they know not what they do...

Bless me father for I have sinned.

 

[Zigner]

Bless me father for I have sinned.

I am also a sinner...

 

[Proserpina]

OK, but i know i havent brainwashed him. can we invite the GAL to dinner/ dates to see the interaction between us or how does a GAL make his/her presence

Okay, I'll play.

The GAL is going to see how your child interacts with both parents. The GAL is going to see right through you, and your feeble attempts at alienating the child from his other parent; the GAL is also going to make note of your intention to relocate and take the child away.

My prediction, if I were a gambling gal (and if this was real, I hasten to add), is that the GAL's report is going to recommend at least joint custody with Dad, if not full placement. Perhaps supervised visitation for you until you grow up and realize that your son isn't a little Tonka toy you can play with and use as a weapon.

I also predict the court rendering down a money judgment against you for not paying your share of the GAL's fee. Which we know you won't pay.

Troll-feeding over. I had a few minutes while my tea was brewing

 

[nanu156]

More likely, the GAL will be able to tell how your kid really feels about things. Minus all the drama that you and dad seem to be feeding him.

Could just be that Dad's request is the best thing that could be done for the kid yet. Now the court will get a REAL picture of just how badly you have messed up on parenting your child. Poor kid will finally have someone that really understands the situation from his point of view and is willing to influence the court's decision based on what is really and truly in that child's best interest - not what YOU think that best interest might be.

I say that this will put one big check mark on Dad's side for me. It's about time someone actually looked after the child's best interests instead of their own.

DUDE you just talked her out of it... way to go 8)

 

[nanu156]

They're coming to take me away, ha-haaa.
They're coming to take me away, ho ho, he he , ha ha,
To the happy home with trees and flowers and chirping birds
And basket weavers who sit and smile
And twiddle their thumbs and toes
And they're coming to take me away, ha-haaa!

 

[lilmansmom]

More likely, the GAL will be able to tell how your kid really feels about things. Minus all the drama that you and dad seem to be feeding him.

Could just be that Dad's request is the best thing that could be done for the kid yet. Now the court will get a REAL picture of just how badly you have messed up on parenting your child. Poor kid will finally have someone that really understands the situation from his point of view and is willing to influence the court's decision based on what is really and truly in that child's best interest - not what YOU think that best interest might be.

I say that this will put one big check mark on Dad's side for me. It's about time someone actually looked after the child's best interests instead of their own.

How can I make sure my son doesnt lie or is there any way i can make sure the GAL tells him its not ok to lie or else someone will be getting in trouble here. my son needs to know he cant defend daddy just because its disneyland at daddys and daddy promised him everything to be against me. thats my only issue is i want to make sure the GAL is aware of lies my son might have been told to say. when does a GAL make his/her presence since we will be moving, will the GAL need to go with us? dad only has every other weekend now

 

[Proserpina]

How can I make sure my son doesnt lie or is there any way i can make sure the GAL tells him its not ok to lie or else someone will be getting in trouble here. my son needs to know he cant defend daddy just because its disneyland at daddys and daddy promised him everything to be against me. thats my only issue is i want to make sure the GAL is aware of lies my son might have been told to say. when does a GAL make his/her presence since we will be moving, will the GAL need to go with us? dad only has every other weekend now

So it's okay for you to coach your son - but not Dad?

How very interesting.

I guarantee that the GAL will be infinitely smarter than you. S/he will know who is coaching and who is actually thinking about the child. And why not allow Dad custody so you can move unfettered?

A perfectly reasonable option, no?

 

[lilmansmom]

So it's okay for you to coach your son - but not Dad?

How very interesting.

I guarantee that the GAL will be infinitely smarter than you. S/he will know who is coaching and who is actually thinking about the child. And why not allow Dad custody so you can move unfettered?

A perfectly reasonable option, no?

no actually ive never forced my son to do or say anything in his life but the GAL will certainly know how his father has brainwashed him and makes him tell lies. when will the gal make his/her appearance. what if we aren't even at home

 

[Antigone*]

no actually ive never forced my son to do or say anything in his life but the GAL will certainly know how his father has brainwashed him and makes him tell lies. when will the gal make his/her appearance. what if we aren't even at home

Dontcha love it when the trolls squirm

 

[Mnemosyne]

Let's see if I have this right. Back in March, the child was so scared, anxious, and depressed at the prospect of having to spend time with his father that the child had to be medicated. Here it is only August and now it's Disneyland at Dad's?

Perhaps all the little man needed to set him right was a nice long vacation from lilmansmom.

my son needs to know he cant defend daddy just because its disneyland at daddys and daddy promised him everything to be against me.

 

[Proserpina]

no actually ive never forced my son to do or say anything in his life but the GAL will certainly know how his father has brainwashed him and makes him tell lies. when will the gal make his/her appearance. what if we aren't even at home

Well then I guess you'd be seen as a non-compliant, uncooperative, irresponsible, careless parent and ... Dad gets custody!

 

[Antigone*]

Well then I guess you'd be seen as a non-compliant, uncooperative, irresponsible, careless parent and ... Dad gets custody!

I betcha lilliansmom was a used car sales person in another life. She certainly knows how to spin things.