What is the name of your state?
Washington
Short version:
My cousin was just killed by her boyfriend and has 3 kids (15,4,1). Their grandpa will probably want to fight for them. He is a drug user (although gainfully employed) and an all around bad person (verbally abusive, etc). So I would be the children's uncle although, honestly, I've had minimal contact with them as we live across the country from each other (I live in Texas). I'm pretty confident the mother did not have a will or anything which indicated what her wishes were at death (she was 35).
Here's the question, if the grandpa wants to fight for his grandkids (most likely to get whatever money the Mom had, which we'd gladly forfeit for the kids) does he get special consideration over their uncle (me)? If it matters I've been married for 14 years and have a great job with 4 kids of my own. He's had atleast 3 children out of wedlock and tends to date/separate from women that are younger than his daughter was. Not trying a character attack here but trying to give a little bit of difference as to the character differences between him and me.
Also, what would a lawyer usually charge for this type of service (per hour??/retainer??) and would he need to cover TX and WA or since she lived in WA would it deal only with that state. Honestly, what are the chances of this thing going our way...1%, 20%???
Since I've never had to retain a lawyer not sure if my approach is even correct here, thanks.
Washington
Short version:
My cousin was just killed by her boyfriend and has 3 kids (15,4,1). Their grandpa will probably want to fight for them. He is a drug user (although gainfully employed) and an all around bad person (verbally abusive, etc). So I would be the children's uncle although, honestly, I've had minimal contact with them as we live across the country from each other (I live in Texas). I'm pretty confident the mother did not have a will or anything which indicated what her wishes were at death (she was 35).
Here's the question, if the grandpa wants to fight for his grandkids (most likely to get whatever money the Mom had, which we'd gladly forfeit for the kids) does he get special consideration over their uncle (me)? If it matters I've been married for 14 years and have a great job with 4 kids of my own. He's had atleast 3 children out of wedlock and tends to date/separate from women that are younger than his daughter was. Not trying a character attack here but trying to give a little bit of difference as to the character differences between him and me.
Also, what would a lawyer usually charge for this type of service (per hour??/retainer??) and would he need to cover TX and WA or since she lived in WA would it deal only with that state. Honestly, what are the chances of this thing going our way...1%, 20%???
Since I've never had to retain a lawyer not sure if my approach is even correct here, thanks.