Thanks for the response!
They threatened with a restraining order which is nonsense, if you ask me. I had sent the letter already, but she went into her mothers email and erased it. A 22 year old acting like a child. I had no one formally tell me no contact, or no attempted communication, but when I was calling in front of her house; they called the police on me (we live in the same neighborhood). I'm only worried about the felony probation because of it somehow violating it. Additionally the encounter with the police last night was incorrectly done. Discrimination, calling me "you stalkers", and thorough use of intimidation, and as I smiled they told me not to smile, but I couldn't help it. I'm an optimist, and I just want to end everything correctly and smoothly. I wish a formal apology could be acceptable, but if it's only the material objects, ok then. Even if I can't get the stuff, oh well it's just stuff. I just know the affects of holding in a grudge and anger, and I would like a peaceful resolution to all of this. Thank you, and I hope I explained everything more clearly.