Help interpreting order

[escape2paradise]

Escape, has dad asked to USE the parenting time?

No, in fact DD sta he keeps making excuses and saying he doesn't know when he'll see her. Of. Course he follows up and tells her its my fault and she should ask me when she will see him.

 

[TinkerBelleLuvr]

Then the answer is real simple:

DD, daddy KNOWS what he has to do to see you. The ball is in his court.

 

[escape2paradise]

Update for those interested.

I finally got to speak with my attorney. He did have to take another look at the order and he agrees with me. X is not to have visitation without having taken and passed a follicle test.

Part of me is relieved, the other part is worried. I know DD doesn't want to be alone with Dad, but she does want to see him. I think she is hoping that he will not be talking smack with Grandma there and the strict orders.

Now I guess it's just a wait and see game.

 

[LdiJ]

Update for those interested.

I finally got to speak with my attorney. He did have to take another look at the order and he agrees with me. X is not to have visitation without having taken and passed a follicle test.

Part of me is relieved, the other part is worried. I know DD doesn't want to be alone with Dad, but she does want to see him. I think she is hoping that he will not be talking smack with Grandma there and the strict orders.

Now I guess it's just a wait and see game.

He knows he can't pass a hair follicle test.

 

[escape2paradise]

He knows he can't pass a hair follicle test.

Exactly! For someone who only occasionally smokes pot, or so he claims, should be able to stay clean for 90 days pass a follicle & get to see his kid! I was surprised that the supervised visits were conditional on a drug test. My attorney says the judge made them that way for a reason. She probably felt he wouldn't ever take the test.