not2cleverRed
Obvious Observer
You could learn a lot by emulating the other parent a little.I am a strong willed person. I don't deny this - yet there is a right and a wrong here.
I feel like the psychologist made statements based on form rather than substance.
Other parent appears nice. Other parent plays nice.
Maybe I am a bull in a china shop, but approach is not substance.
I've been taken for a ride by ex and a flawed system.
I don't believe I deserve to be judged by my frustration.
Psychologists shouldn't go to school for years and then accept money for pointing out "outward appearances"
The systemem is the only system you have the option of playing with. Learn the rules. Use the rules. If the kids are really that important to you, you too can "play nice".
Because that's in their best interest? And what is the change of circumstance you were going to use?This is the "background"
I currently have every other weekend, a few weeknight visitations, and some summer time.
I moved to within 3 miles of the children.
I would like 50/50 custody, alternating weeks.
I am capable of caring for them, getting them to school, activities, etc.