What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? North Carolina
What can I do to get 50% custody of my son. He is currently almost 6 months old.
I want joint legal and a 50-50 time share.If you mean a 50-50 timeshare, it's unlikely to happen without Mom's agreement and even less likely because of your son's age.
If you mean joint LEGAL custody (decision-making), that's a different matter.
Do you have any court orders in place?
Are you legally established as Dad?
I want joint legal and a 50-50 time share.
Paternity test was done when he was 5 days old. We go to the TPA hearing next week - no orders as of right now.
Would anything help me get 50-50 or close to 50-50 other than the Mother agreeing?
Not in an unmarried situation. If you wanted 50-50 to even be considered, you should have been married before procreating.I want joint legal and a 50-50 time share.
Paternity test was done when he was 5 days old. We go to the TPA hearing next week - no orders as of right now.
Would anything help me get 50-50 or close to 50-50 other than the Mother agreeing?
I want joint legal and a 50-50 time share.
Paternity test was done when he was 5 days old. We go to the TPA hearing next week - no orders as of right now.
Would anything help me get 50-50 or close to 50-50 other than the Mother agreeing?
We were living together, and she said she was on the pill. I didn't plan to procreate.Not in an unmarried situation. If you wanted 50-50 to even be considered, you should have been married before procreating.
Sure, it matters. You'll likely get several hours each week, split up so that you have a few hours in an evening and a longer period on a weekend day. Usually set up so you don't go more than 3 days or so without some time with kiddo.We were living together, and she said she was on the pill. I didn't plan to procreate.
I see the baby for 8 hours on Sat or Sunday every week and an evening or two as well. The Mother is allowing me an overnight this Friday night for the first time. That is all the Mother will allow right now. Doesn't it matter that I have been seeing him since he was a day old?
We were living together, and she said she was on the pill. I didn't plan to procreate.
I see the baby for 8 hours on Sat or Sunday every week and an evening or two as well. The Mother is allowing me an overnight this Friday night for the first time. That is all the Mother will allow right now. Doesn't it matter that I have been seeing him since he was a day old?
You still aren't going to get 50/50, especially if Mom doesn't agree.We were living together, and she said she was on the pill. I didn't plan to procreate.
I see the baby for 8 hours on Sat or Sunday every week and an evening or two as well. The Mother is allowing me an overnight this Friday night for the first time. That is all the Mother will allow right now. Doesn't it matter that I have been seeing him since he was a day old?
That may help you obtain a visitation schedule now, taking the child to your home etc... but it won't be any where near 50/50. Probably EOW and one night through the week. You could ask to ROFR, to get additional times if Mom goes out or something... but 50/50 is very doubtful without Mom's agreement.We were living together, and she said she was on the pill. I didn't plan to procreate.
I see the baby for 8 hours on Sat or Sunday every week and an evening or two as well. The Mother is allowing me an overnight this Friday night for the first time. That is all the Mother will allow right now. Doesn't it matter that I have been seeing him since he was a day old?
The Mother is uber controlling and would never agree to something like 50-50. She has made it clear her limit for overnights she will agree to without a court forcing her is 10 per month and that is only after he is a year/two or older. I won't agree because I feel as his Father I deserve more. If I have to take it to a trial, I will, because I feel I should stand up for what I believe in. How can some people get 50-50?That may help you obtain a visitation schedule now, taking the child to your home etc... but it won't be any where near 50/50. Probably EOW and one night through the week. You could ask to ROFR, to get additional times if Mom goes out or something... but 50/50 is very doubtful without Mom's agreement.
Because theyThe Mother is uber controlling and would never agree to something like 50-50. She has made it clear her limit for overnights she will agree to without a court forcing her is 10 per month and that is only after he is a year/two or older. I won't agree because I feel as his Father I deserve more. If I have to take it to a trial, I will, because I feel I should stand up for what I believe in. How can some people get 50-50?
They get it because BOTH PARTIES AGREE to it. (as stated above!)The Mother is uber controlling and would never agree to something like 50-50. She has made it clear her limit for overnights she will agree to without a court forcing her is 10 per month and that is only after he is a year/two or older. I won't agree because I feel as his Father I deserve more. If I have to take it to a trial, I will, because I feel I should stand up for what I believe in. How can some people get 50-50?