I agree with freespeech
Hi Thinlizzy,
Before you read the rest of this post, please understand that I am not an attorney, and that I am not offering legal advice, just personal experience.
I understand the frustration you are experiencing, but "freespeech" is right, in my opinion. I am a web host (you may have guessed that by the name), and several times a month I get e-mails asking if I allow the ***suckz.com type sites.
My answer is always the same. "If you are willing to agree to pay my legal expenses, which are bound to occur, yes".
The reason for my answer is that you are likely to be sued. The problem is that they will sue me, too.
I'm not sure of the name of the act, it has gone through several revisions, but it basically states that a web host is providing a service and not a content provider or publisher, and is therefore immune to libel actions. Thanks be to (whomever), I have always been released (I don't remember the proper legal term) from the law suit.
That being said, if you are determined to continue down this path, be sure that the information you offer is either stated as personal opinion or documented fact. You will probably wind up in court anyway, and you'd better be able to prove everything you publish on your site.
Ok, now...just some personal advice. You are hurt; you are angry; don't let that become personally destructive. Get your anger out in another way. Move on with your life, and make the rest productive. Focusing on such anger will only serve to hurt you in the long run.
I know this is probably not what you wanted to read, but for a moment at least, understand that is probably what you NEEDED to read!
Good luck