how long before considered abandoning marital property

[LdiJ]

I do the shopping after he his weekday visitation which is when ever his son wants to come over so I have a hard time stocking up on food.
Glad to hear about the utilities, once again thank you to all who helped me.

Then you probably shouldn't stock up on food, or at least not stock up on things that teens would have any interest in eating. You definitely should need have to pay the money to feed his child and friends.