Update for seniorjudge
Hey Judge,
I took your advice (honey) and talked to the other homeowner this afternoon. I used the "I have a problem and I wonder if you would help me solve it." approach. It was a little hostile at first but it lightened up fast. The property owners parents were also there when I went to presented my findings to them. The Father was loud and shouting. I said to him " Sir please treat me with the same courtesy and respect that you would like me to treat you ". With a blank look on his face he then lowered his voice started being civil . Catching someone off guard really works and its so easy. Anyway this worked out great because they had their property resurveyed this same day, so the property line was clearly visible to them. I ask them if 2 weeks was enough time for them to do research to find a legal document stating and describing the easement/shared driveway. And that if they couldn't produce a document that I planned to put up a fence.
They tried to say that a real estate listing of their property when they purchased it states a "shared driveway" with no description and that was their proof. I replied that it was not legally binding document . I said that could mean that you have to share your driveway on the other side of your property with the other adjacent owner, and at the end of that paper "listing" it states that this information is accurate to the best of my knowledge. You should have seen the raised eyebrows. (priceless). I told them that the only acceptable proof was a legal document recorded at the courthouse stating and easement/right of way/shared driveway. Today I will call the surveyor they used and inquire to see if he found any documents about an easement.
They (parents) said they would have they attorney contact me. Although I seems to be going good now, they seem pretty sure in thinking they are right. I am hoping that when/if they cant produce a legal document, that continue to be as civil as they were yesterday afternoon.
Sorry to be so long winded. But as I have read/posted advice in other forums in the past you usually dont find out how your advice to someone turned out. So this is why im posting a recap of what is happening with the advice that Ive been given to let everyone know how its going.
The phone just rang while I was typing this and it was the surveyor calling me back. He informed me that he also could not find any easement/right of way/ shared driveway documentation and that his report to the homeowner would reflect that data. By the way this homeowners father asked me if I would believe the surveyor. I said "if he can provide proof that a document exist, I would". It looks like in on the right track here.
P.S. is their any specific questions that I need to address with my attorney about this issue?
Judge, once again thanks you for your advice. Very much appreciated.
Woody,