I thank you for your continued advice. I will talk to an attorney although we are from modest background. I wish my husband will be alright and back. He was planning to quit the job in the next one year or so due to health and other personal reasons. Now, it seems, he cannot come to job anymore and may not come to USA in near future although I wish he will come and do the job. He has some money in his retirement account 403(b) as he was (and still on leave) doing a small job in government. Can the other party/court take away his 403(b) money which he already accumulated if he loses the case and do not come back to USA? We have a mobile home, in small piece of land on both our names (I and my husband) as joint owners and we bought, years before this lawsuit, with my husband’s salary. Can the court take away that home/land if he loses the case and do not come back to USA? We have nothing else (I work part time in Walmart, etc). This information will help decide my next steps whether it is financially worth enough to fight the case or give it up if there is nothing to financially lose even if my husband loses the case.