I am from Virginia. My question is what options do I have when my husband is refusing to put the house up for sale?? We had agreed to go ahead with the divorce over a year ago and now I am really ready to move on. I tried to go the route of re-financing my house in order to keep it however I could not get enough back to pay him the ungodly $20,000 that he wants. We have only lived in the house for 5 years. Then I have tried to call a real estate agent and go ahead and put it up for sale. But he refuses to sign any papers and now I am stuck. He won't let me leave and I can't afford to with out some money from the house and will not go ahead with the divorce. Says he wants to continue to make my life miserable. Please help me before I go off the deep end!!