I have some questions about the laws and moving out if your 18 but still a senior

[LifeSux4Me]

Ohio

I am a 17 year old female who is a Senior in high school and I will be turning 18 on December 22. Only 23 days away!! I am involved with a boy whom my parents fobibe me to see or have any contact with! He just asked me to marry him and I love him more than any thing! We want to move into an apartment together so we can be together happily! Can I move out leagally or am I looking for trouble?

 

[stevek3]

Ohio

I am a 17 year old female who is a Senior in high school and I will be turning 18 on December 22. Only 23 days away!! I am involved with a boy whom my parents fobibe me to see or have any contact with! He just asked me to marry him and I love him more than any thing! We want to move into an apartment together so we can be together happily! Can I move out leagally or am I looking for trouble?

Like you said, 23 days to go. Which also happens to be the same number of days that young marriages usually last.

 

[LifeSux4Me]

thanx.....

ohio

We love one another and have fior over 3 years i really think we are ready to do this!! 23 dasy yeas but did u stop to think that just maybe this would be 23 years?

 

[cbg]

Marriage is a little different. But even assuming you're right and this is the most perfect, long-lasting love since Romeo and Juliet (and when you think about it, R&J didn't last all that long either), would it really be all that much of a hardship to wait till you graduate?

 

[LifeSux4Me]

the thing is

ohio


we are not allowed to c each other no contact at all!!! he had to ask me while i was at work!!! b/c my mom wont have it!! I am not allowed on the phone, i am not allowed to go ne where!! nothing!! i need to be with him!! this is the only way i am afraid!

 

[cbg]

So you're going to give up going to school, because you'll need a full time job to support yourself, not graduate and never be able to go to college or get a decent paying job, all because you can't keep your hormones in check for six months? Not to mention the fact that the odds are VERY much against any marriage lasting more than a year or two at MOST.

BTW, how old is this boy and where did you meet him? Why is your mother so dead set against him? Tell the truth, now, we can't help you if you color things to make it look better.

 

[stealth2]

How do you lovebirds intend to support yourselves? Love don't pay the rent, sweets.

 

[whereismymind13]

How do you lovebirds intend to support yourselves? Love don't pay the rent, sweets.

If you guys really loved eachother then he can wait until you graduate and then over the summer move in with him or get an apartment and see how things work out or take a year off be4 college.

 

[You Are Guilty]

Well, I think you should leave right now, pick him up and head on over to Vegas and get yourselves hitched. While you're on the bus, you might also want to get a head start on pruducing some more welfare-sapping knee-biters, and maybe peruse a trailer catalog or two so you'll have someplace to store your gubment cheese.



PS: You can send my invite to the wedding c/o this website.



PPS: While I have no vested interest in this marriage, I just coincidentally happen to handle divorces, and my retainer is quite reasonable!

 

[AHA]

NO ONE should get married out of sheer desperation to be allowed to be together!!!!! That's not a solid base to start a marriage on. And any teen marriage is doomed if the parents aren't in agreement with you and emotionally support you, where will you go if the marriage goes sour and you have alienated your parents?
Could your bf maybe have thought that proposing marriage to you would make your parents allow you to see him?

 

[cbg]

I don't know, I have a pretty good idea that either the bf is about 25 (or older) or else this is an Internet romance. Or both.

 

[You Are Guilty]

I don't know, I have a pretty good idea that either the bf is about 25 (or older) or else this is an Internet romance. Or both.

Only one way to find out...


... time to post some pictures!!! (with clothes only, please)


(and not of the dude)

 

[LifeSux4Me]

ok

ok guys he is 17 and he has been in trouble like he stole got locked up got caught for underage ran from the law and not to mention he cheated the first time we were togther 3 years ago! He dropped out and he openly will tell you he does drugs! not just the mary jane either. But thank you all b/c my mother always told the best predictor for present behavior is the past and i just found out he cheated on me! the whole time he has been two timing!! I love him so much but i let myself go altogether and I lost all sense!!

 

[LifeSux4Me]

god not a online romance jesus lord no no no

 

[AHA]

ok guys he is 17 and he has been in trouble like he stole got locked up got caught for underage ran from the law and not to mention he cheated the first time we were togther 3 years ago! He dropped out and he openly will tell you he does drugs! not just the mary jane either. But thank you all b/c my mother always told the best predictor for present behavior is the past and i just found out he cheated on me! the whole time he has been two timing!! I love him so much but i let myself go altogether and I lost all sense!!

After all he does that disrespects you, what can you possibly love about him?????
Now is the perfect opportunity to regain some sense, dump that loser and focus on your life an future. You'll find someone better and respectful when you're good and ready AND LEGAL for a commitment.
If he's already disrespected you over and over already, he'll keep doing it. He's a weak little boy. Prove that you're stronger, walk away and focus on yourself.