If that's what they told you, they're either incredibly overworked or incredibly clueless. Of course it matters - would they tell you the same if he cut your brakeline and you were severely injured? No, no they wouldn't.
Okay, now that mini-rant is over, here's the deal.
It sucks that you don't have transport. But the divorce has been filed and that generally creates a type of injunction preventing either of you from taking/removing/otherwise divvying up the marital assets before the court has spoken. This generally goes as far as bank accounts, too.
But you need to pick one - you're either aware of the divorce filing or you're not. It's not both.