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scbluedog

Junior Member
What is the name of your state?ga
I filed for divorce against my husband because he was verbaly abusive and was never around. I have a 4 year old son that I have raised by myself. My husband owned a lot of weapons and I caught him shooting them out of our bedroom window at night inhto the yard. He has some silencers too. He drank and when he drank he became verbally abusive. he used to tell people he was jealous of our son because I spent so much time with him. But he chose to go out at night and sometimes not come home. I had an exparte order issued to get him out of the house for my own safety. His parents own a big business and have lots of money. We had a preliminary hearing and the result was him lying that he was father of the year. I had affidavits stating that his own Mother lied in saying my Mom was laid off from work. My Mom had had the same job for over 5 years. He is a habitual liar. My attourney was bad too. He told me the judge that we were seeing feels like both parents made the child and both deserve to have them. It was ruled that He get my son
from Wednesday to Monday every 1st 3rd and 5th weeks. I get him 9 days and he gets him 5. Now we have had court ordered mediation and he knows I do not have 10,000 to fight in a jury trial so he threatened me with court if I did not sign his agreement where everything is 50/50. His parents are paying his legal fees and have all the money in the world. The only thing I have is a gun safe that the judge ordered be inventoried. I ahve called the ATF and they know that some things in that safe are illegal because I found a handwritten receipt for them and the model numbers were for a sawed a shotgun and some silencers. If he goes to jail for this Posseion of illegal firearms which is a Federal Offense could I get my son even if we have an agreement but ithasn't been submitted to the court? Can I tell the judge he threatned me with court? What can I do. he is getting everything that is his and half of mine. I am praying for this ATF thing to come through. he doesn't deserve anything and he is a liar.
 


I AM ALWAYS LIABLE

Senior Member
scbluedog said:
What is the name of your state?ga


My husband owned a lot of weapons and I caught him shooting them out of our bedroom window at night inhto the yard. He has some silencers too. [/B]

My response:

Hillbillies sho' are funny folks!

IAAL
 

scbluedog

Junior Member
I live in Buckhead. I am from New York so I do not know that term. Please This is serious and I need advice
 

rmet4nzkx

Senior Member
What did your attorney say about when and if you should sign an agreement.
Does you ex know about ATF?
When are ATF comming to check out his weapons?
Did you ever report him firing the weapons from your bedroom window or make any reports of abuse?
Is this the same judge who ordered the inventory as made the visitation order?
Did the judge know about the weapons when he made the order?
Why were the weapons not taken when the restraining order was issued?
 

BL

Senior Member
It was ruled that He get my son
from Wednesday to Monday every 1st 3rd and 5th weeks. I get him 9 days and he gets him 5.
As long as he's not a danger to the child , he has his rights .

Sure If he goes to prison , you would have Custody of the Children .

Who would you think would get them ?

BTW , he doesn't get " Your son " . The child is both of yours .
 

cavinman

Junior Member
What did your attorney say about when and if you should sign an agreement.

He doesn't agree with it but I ahve told him that i do not have that kind of money to fight him. His parents have a lot and are coaching him all the way.

Does you ex know about ATF?

No. the ATF guy does not want anyone to know.

When are ATF comming to check out his weapons?
Before the agreement is submitted.

Did you ever report him firing the weapons from your bedroom window or make any reports of abuse?

Yes to the abuse hotline also when I filed the Exparte order.

Is this the same judge who ordered the inventory as made the visitation order?

Yes. but my attorney said that there doesn't need to be one since we are agreeing. he said our agreement would override the judges order.

Did the judge know about the weapons when he made the order?

No he lied and said he did not know anything about guns but his story did not gel and he started sweating. thats when the inventory was ordered.


Why were the weapons not taken when the restraining order was issued?
The gun safe was locked and it was ordered until the preliminary hearing nothing was to be removed until that time No utilities could be cut off or anything.
 

stealth2

Under the Radar Member
Uuuuh, are you the same person as OP?

(edit) And if you ARE, why are you a woman in this thread and a guy in your other one?
 

stealth2

Under the Radar Member
Then why have you (a) answered the questions rmet asked of scbluedog and (b) hijacked this thread?
 

stealth2

Under the Radar Member
uh huh. Pretty poor work practices then to stay logged in. If the two of you don't want to be taken for playing games, you need to be a little more careful in posting. Not to mention that your employer may be less than pleased.
 

BL

Senior Member
stealth2 said:
Then why have you (a) answered the questions rmet asked of scbluedog and (b) hijacked this thread?

You mean you both have the same factual cases , and need the same factual answers , and answer the same Questions posed to you each ?

Ha Ha Ha !!

Hold on , let me go get some a granny's recipe and go out back and sit by the Cement pond a while .
 
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rmet4nzkx

Senior Member
scbluedog said:
I logged them off and logged back in. We are kind of in the same boat but not really.
Don't play games, it sounds too much like
cavinman said:
What is the name of your state? GA

My wife and I have joint and legal physical custody. I have them 1 week she has them the next week. If she were to go to jail for a criminal act would this have any effect on custody or might a change be justified due to that fact.

Thanks for any input

She might have comitted ID theft to help a person out in his divorce case and pretended to be his wife and changed her information on a credit card and had the mailing sent to his house.
now you please answer the questions and provide the accurate facts.
 

scbluedog

Junior Member
What did your attorney say about when and if you should sign an agreement.

He doesn't agree with it but I ahve told him that i do not have that kind of money to fight him. His parents have a lot and are coaching him all the way.

Does you ex know about ATF?

No. the ATF guy does not want anyone to know.

When are ATF comming to check out his weapons?
Before the agreement is submitted.

Did you ever report him firing the weapons from your bedroom window or make any reports of abuse?

Yes to the abuse hotline also when I filed the Exparte order.

Is this the same judge who ordered the inventory as made the visitation order?

Yes. but my attorney said that there doesn't need to be one since we are agreeing. he said our agreement would override the judges order.

Did the judge know about the weapons when he made the order?

No he lied and said he did not know anything about guns but his story did not gel and he started sweating. thats when the inventory was ordered.


Why were the weapons not taken when the restraining order was issued?
The gun safe was locked and it was ordered until the preliminary hearing nothing was to be removed until that time No utilities could be cut off or anything.
 

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