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Tes95

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Virginia

Hello, I am 16 years old. I have many disorders and biological conditions, but I am a very intelligent, compassionate, and functioning person who needs to know: Can I Emancipate? My family, to me, save for my grandmother, are abusive and neglectful for the majority of times currently present, and past. I am mentally tortured on a daily basis by my siblings, mother, and grandfather. I am threatened with police. I am threatened with being held down by orderlies in an asylum. My mother has even said, and I quote, "Go ahead and emancipate; get out of my house; leave; I don't care where you go" among other things. I am traumatized daily. There is constant fighting and chaos over the simplest of things. My mother and grandfather seem to believe that they have the authority to perform such vile acts, degrade me, frustrate me to the point of aggressive, but not physically violent behaviour. I am in a hostile environment psychologically. I have started a work transition class, and have a GDL learner's permit from West Virginia. I'm a good person. My mom is incapable of taking care of me. She just seems to see me as a bother, and even worse, as my father. She has multiple reasons why she is incapable of taking care of me, per the rules on this site, I cannot divulge. I have a lot of things that are good. A lot of the time my life is good. But for every time I've spent smiling or laughing, there's been 3 times that I cried. My mom tortures me psychologically whether she realizes or not, and I can stand it no longer, especially with my grandfather and siblings. I have been physically abused by my father, but he is not the issue here. The environment I am in. I cannot live under. I fully comprehend the terms of what emancipation entails. The thought honestly scares me. Makes me want to cry. But not because I can't survive. Because my family has so incessantly drove me to this point. I need help. I believe that all things happen for a reason. I have mine. But I can't live with theirs. Please, someone tell me what I can do. :(What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
 


Antigone*

Senior Member
Virginia

Hello, I am 16 years old. I have many disorders and biological conditions, but I am a very intelligent, compassionate, and functioning person who needs to know: Can I Emancipate? My family, to me, save for my grandmother, are abusive and neglectful for the majority of times currently present, and past. I am mentally tortured on a daily basis by my siblings, mother, and grandfather. I am threatened with police. I am threatened with being held down by orderlies in an asylum. My mother has even said, and I quote, "Go ahead and emancipate; get out of my house; leave; I don't care where you go" among other things. I am traumatized daily. There is constant fighting and chaos over the simplest of things. My mother and grandfather seem to believe that they have the authority to perform such vile acts, degrade me, frustrate me to the point of aggressive, but not physically violent behaviour. I am in a hostile environment psychologically. I have started a work transition class, and have a GDL learner's permit from West Virginia. I'm a good person. My mom is incapable of taking care of me. She just seems to see me as a bother, and even worse, as my father. She has multiple reasons why she is incapable of taking care of me, per the rules on this site, I cannot divulge. I have a lot of things that are good. A lot of the time my life is good. But for every time I've spent smiling or laughing, there's been 3 times that I cried. My mom tortures me psychologically whether she realizes or not, and I can stand it no longer, especially with my grandfather and siblings. I have been physically abused by my father, but he is not the issue here. The environment I am in. I cannot live under. I fully comprehend the terms of what emancipation entails. The thought honestly scares me. Makes me want to cry. But not because I can't survive. Because my family has so incessantly drove me to this point. I need help. I believe that all things happen for a reason. I have mine. But I can't live with theirs. Please, someone tell me what I can do. :(What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?

Emancipation is not a possibility in your scenario. I do suggest you speak to a counselor or a pastor.
 

Tes95

Junior Member
I don't know what to say.

On the brink of desperation, I look for ways out. I know, that there are others more unfortunate than I. I see now that my purgatory is what I must remain in. I thought that good samaritans still existed. I thought wrong. Counselors, pastors... none work. Talking does not solve problems often, and especially not mine. Those of you as under the law, sworn to protect and guide the very ones you share your lives with, can offer no viable solution... I digress. I'll fade. I've now given up. For the last time. This is not a statement of a man sentenced to death by his own hand. But one who walks as death itself. Thank you for your time... I feel.... desolate. So. So desolate... Goodbye.
 

Antigone*

Senior Member
On the brink of desperation, I look for ways out. I know, that there are others more unfortunate than I. I see now that my purgatory is what I must remain in. I thought that good samaritans still existed. I thought wrong. Counselors, pastors... none work. Talking does not solve problems often, and especially not mine. Those of you as under the law, sworn to protect and guide the very ones you share your lives with, can offer no viable solution... I digress. I'll fade. I've now given up. For the last time. This is not a statement of a man sentenced to death by his own hand. But one who walks as death itself. Thank you for your time... I feel.... desolate. So. So desolate... Goodbye.
Please seek help.
 

Tes95

Junior Member
**************.....

I've sought my help. It was for naught. Null and void. Politics, laws, morals. Nothing matters. This world is what I perceived, but refused to believe. Cold. Devoid. Selfish. Blind. And so, bar members. I realize you can do nothing. But then again... who really can. Farewell.
 

cbg

I'm a Northern Girl
Take the drama llama and park it out back, Taylor.

Volunteers on a legal board cannot make the law say what you want it to say. The law is not going to emancipate you based on what you've posted. So take your attempts to make everyone here feel SO guilty because we didn't give you what you wanted and talk to your elected officials. They can change the law. We cannot.
 

Silverplum

Senior Member
And put away your Teenage Thesaurus of Doom.

TALK to a teacher, school counselor, doctor, nurse, cop. Mandated reporters all.

WE can't help you on the internet. YOU have to help yourself, by doing what I told you to do. TALK to a teacher, school counselor, doctor, nurse, cop.
 

I'mTheFather

Senior Member
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Shadowbunny

Queen of the Not-Rights
Taylor, I'm unsure as to what help you were hoping to find here. The laws regarding emancipation dictate that for you to be emancipated,you'd have to fully be able to support yourself. Unless you're able to do that, you can't be emancipated. That's the legal answer.

The advice the members offered you is the legal choice that exists. If you've tried talking to someone and feel as if they weren't listening, then try again with someone else. Your life is worth the effort to keep speaking up until you talk to the right person. And you can always call your state's child protective services if you're being abused.


You may want to check out TEEN LINE | Teens Helping Teens - Connect, talk, chat, get help!. There are people there who can offer the emotional and moral support you need.
 

Tes95

Junior Member
No point any longer. I'll cease discussion, seeing these words.

IamTheFather, thank you. You're the only nice person I've seen here. The others are.... weak as I may be, you're bullies. 2 of you, at least. How can you claim to offer advice, yet have hurled such despicable insults at me?! I'm in tears. I'm sorry I even came here. Not my place. I'm only 16 after all. Goodbye.
 

Just Blue

Senior Member
IamTheFather, thank you. You're the only nice person I've seen here. The others are.... weak as I may be, you're bullies. 2 of you, at least. How can you claim to offer advice, yet have hurled such despicable insults at me?! I'm in tears. I'm sorry I even came here. Not my place. I'm only 16 after all. Goodbye.
Poor you...:rolleyes:
 

cyjeff

Senior Member
IamTheFather, thank you. You're the only nice person I've seen here. The others are.... weak as I may be, you're bullies. 2 of you, at least. How can you claim to offer advice, yet have hurled such despicable insults at me?! I'm in tears. I'm sorry I even came here. Not my place. I'm only 16 after all. Goodbye.
You can't have it both ways, kiddo.

You can't demand the rights and responsibilities of an adult while simultaneously playing the "I'm only 16 after all" card out of sympathy.

If you are not willing to discuss any solution that doesn't fit the "I need to be emancipated", then we have nothing to discuss. You will not be emancipated based upon what you have said.

If you are being abused, talk to someone.... but you don't seem to want to do that either. This is a legal website. We are not teen counselors or psychiatrists here to help you through a difficult time.

You asked a legal question. You got a legal answer. What you want from us escapes me.
 
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