Got your genders all pointed in one direction here. There are one hell of a lot of "spiteful" people of both sexes who are thinking primarily about the money and power situation and how to win that. People are not so advanced now that they are all reasonable though I agree it would be better if they all were. And honestly, when it is about to be done to you, you'd better not bring a knife to the gunfight. No, actually the days of spiteful women taking the man to the cleaners "because he's a man" are not gone, but neither are the days of "I'm leaving you and I'm not giving you squat and I'm taking the kids!" from either sex. Don't get sneaked up on because you think this.