Well, he's apparently spoken to her already, since we can now post words such as "primary custody", "Maryland" and even "Mary" alone without it now showing up as "pri****", "****land" and "****". Those words are no longer censored as they have been. This has happened since yesterday, as those words which had the name of "mary" in them anywhere were still censored.
Whatever truce they came to is between them. IAAL is a wealth of legal knowledge and has answered questions for me on more than one occasion, however the actions of whomever has been posting as IAAL and the Mary-bashing names was reprehensible. If it was IAAL, then hopefully he'll go back to being his informational, knowledgable, snarky self. If it wasn't IAAL and truly a paralegal in his office, then I hope he takes proper actions against this person.
I agree... the sugary sweetness of those other posts is not in IAAL's style and I think I need to check my blood glucose levels. However, like I said... whatever truce/agreement him and Mary have is between those 2. If we have a more toned down IAAL, so be it. I'd still take his legal advice over anyone on this site any day of the week.