Insurance lapse after signing separation agreement

[Ohiogal]

You know certain posters here will jump on any OP for any excuse they can think of. Deserved or not.

Really? Is it only deserved when you jump on someone? Or LD jumps on someone?

 

[Ohiogal]

Keeping me on his insurance is a far cry from supporting me. Stop being so angry at your own life that you feel the need to insult other people. Wow I never expected hurled insults from people on this forum. Take it easy.

I am not angry. I am pointing out your flaws. You do NOT have a court order that requires him to provide you with health insurance. According to you, it has not been signed by a judge. Yet you will insult him when you apparently can't provide your own health insurance. He is doing something you are unable or unwilling to do and yet you will criticize him when he is communicating with you and trying to inform you of any possible issues. I suggest YOU take it easy. And yes, he is supporting you when it comes to your health issues by continuing to provide your health insurance.

 

[LdiJ]

I am not angry. I am pointing out your flaws. You do NOT have a court order that requires him to provide you with health insurance. According to you, it has not been signed by a judge. Yet you will insult him when you apparently can't provide your own health insurance. He is doing something you are unable or unwilling to do and yet you will criticize him when he is communicating with you and trying to inform you of any possible issues. I suggest YOU take it easy. And yes, he is supporting you when it comes to your health issues by continuing to provide your health insurance.

Remember, this is NC and they do things differently there. They have that whole requirement for a legal separation for a year prior to be able to file for divorce. I have received the impression, many times, that separation agreements didn't require a judge's signature and were treated as an enforceable contract. I may be wrong and I don't have time to research it fully today, but that seems to be what I remember about NC.

 

[Ohiogal]

Remember, this is NC and they do things differently there. They have that whole requirement for a legal separation for a year prior to be able to file for divorce. I have received the impression, many times, that separation agreements didn't require a judge's signature and were treated as an enforceable contract. I may be wrong and I don't have time to research it fully today, but that seems to be what I remember about NC.

Even as a contract however what I stated still holds -- this "not bright crayon" is still attempting to keep OP informed and provide for OP with health insurance coverage and she is insulting him. Yet if she was so much brighter than her husband she wouldn't need to rely on a "not bright crayon" to provide for her. And there would be no contempt of court. In addition, for it to be an enforceable contract it has to meet all the requirements for a contract. What is the consideration he receives for keeping her on his health insurance?