is being vicious a crime?

[wunders]

well..

Honestly, I had no problem with the friendship. I mean, I talked to her on the phone, as well. We're all adults. I maintain friendships with past boyfriends as well. There is that trust. She was not an issue until this.

I saw the e-mail because I was in the same room and he had not expected to open it and see this. It was just there. It wasn't anticipated so he has no problem opening his e-mail in the midst of a conversation with me.

I know that we are not married, and anyone can leave at any time. If he was cheating on me, I would have left in a heart beat. But I should take the time to say that a relationship is a realtionship. No one is entitled to be cruel or selfish because a lack of marriage papers. No one on the outside has the right to infringe on it because there were no wedding vows. Look how little those vows mean to her anyway.

Thanks for the interest for all who wrote. I'll be closing this thread soon. If anyone would like to give last bits of advice, I'll be happy to think it over. Of course, I'm mainly interested if you forsee how I'll get in trouble. Otherwise, I'll keep you abreast (no pun intended) on how its goes from here.

 

[BelizeBreeze]

Of course, I'm mainly interested if you forsee how I'll get in trouble. Otherwise, I'll keep you abreast (no pun intended) on how its goes from here.

Really. You could have fooled me. Otherwise, you would have read my response to you and acted appropriately.

 

[Shay-Pari'e]

Honestly, I had no problem with the friendship. I mean, I talked to her on the phone, as well. We're all adults. I maintain friendships with past boyfriends as well. There is that trust. She was not an issue until this.

I saw the e-mail because I was in the same room and he had not expected to open it and see this. It was just there. It wasn't anticipated so he has no problem opening his e-mail in the midst of a conversation with me.

I know that we are not married, and anyone can leave at any time. If he was cheating on me, I would have left in a heart beat. But I should take the time to say that a relationship is a realtionship. No one is entitled to be cruel or selfish because a lack of marriage papers. No one on the outside has the right to infringe on it because there were no wedding vows. Look how little those vows mean to her anyway.

Thanks for the interest for all who wrote. I'll be closing this thread soon. If anyone would like to give last bits of advice, I'll be happy to think it over. Of course, I'm mainly interested if you forsee how I'll get in trouble. Otherwise, I'll keep you abreast (no pun intended) on how its goes from here.

There is really no need for that. PM someone if you find they are interested.

 

[okamsrazor]

Wrong. The e-mail was sent to her livein boyfriend, NOT her. As such, regardless of how she got it, the only way she would not encounter legal problems is if HE sent it to her.

Otherwise, it's not hers to resend. He, on the other hand, can send it to whomever he wishes. Even her. At that point it becomes her property to do with as she wishes.

Belize-

Of course you are correct. I was under the impression that since she had access to the deleted e-mail it would not be a problem for her to convince him to forward the e-mail to her. I am also assuming she would not tell him of her intention to forward it to everyone she can.

Gryndor-

No not a hacker’s procedure, just the way I would do it. Of course I work in the IT industry, and even though I am working on my Juris Doctor (specializing in technology) I am NOT a lawyer nor am I familiar with laws outside of their relation to technology (nor will I take the bar). I am certain she is clear to do as she wishes with the e-mail once it is forwarded to her. Including sending it to the girl’s co-workers, friends, family, etc. I can even tell her how to send it to the girls entire workplace even if she doesn't know their e-mail addresses using Microsoft Outlook....