So first let me start off by thanking all of you for your info I sincerely appreciate it. So first off, currently I am not up to date on my visitations, I will admit I did have a minor setback and that was my job, I was with green Mountain Coffee roasters for a few years and they had a drastic change in schedule. They went to 12 hour days from 5pm-5am was my shift and working close to 6 days a week because of the mandatory overtime and I was making big steps there. However that kind of schedule really kills my personal life. I'd have him pretty much 85% of the time and I was taking care of my late uncle as well... wasn't easy still to this day haven't coped with the divorce and that just made life harder back then. So now I have him 5-6 days a week I am in a way better situation and moved an hour away from work to be closer to him and spend more time on him. Now I've not only been taking him but I watch their baby as well and the mom even comes over here to stay when they are fighting wicj seems to be every week almost (I promise our friebd ship is strictly plutonium nothing has happened I just let her stay here because I have a room for the boys and it's safe) and my roommate is an elementary school teacher and also teaches Bible study at the church behind my house... he's a really great guy for a child my sons age to be around. Now another thing per my divorce papers I had it written down and signed by her and by the judge that she has to not only present me with written notification that I then have to sign but also that my son is to remain in the Puyallup summer or Bonney Lake school system... I do hag 50% custody and no one is keeping track of nights he's been over it'll all be word of mouth. And lastly one of the main reasons I don't want this to happen I'm a good person I'm not trying to ruin anybody's life special offers and especially now that sounds and especially not there be I love him just as much as if you were my own has spent a lot of time with him and have russian girl this year but he's been alive and he's amazing and cool and sweet and awesome. And his mother and I are best friends part of something that hurts me is that she's leaving to I'm losing my son and my best friend my best friend's child who I've grown attached to my world getting ripped apart from me it sucks what I don't want to have happen is that they go to another state in there disarray differen arguing and he's not going to have anyone to feel safe because they have no friends of family there his family's in Hawaii her family is all here in my family is here and if they go to another country I know her a bajillion times better than him to know that she won't be happy there she is not worldly and I mean that in the slightest respect so you think that weather in peril going to another country horrible he leaves for Korea and she stays here she's already said she probably isn't going to stay with him but then as flip-flops and said she'd never divorce him which for their marriage but I wanted to stay strong become strong become an unbreakable bond. the hard part here is that I still love her but just like why I divorced her to make her happy I will continue to fight for her marriage to work but I will not send my son with a broken marriage to a foreign state or country where first off she has to move to the other state alone she doesn't know how she's going to do it would tell him and the two kids one being a baby and he's a fussy really hard baby sometimes and the other being 6 years old and starting to present attitude and to move all by yourself she's only been out of the state a couple times and I was recently she's a hard enough time driving to another city with GPS but to move to another state where she knows no one that's not going to work for her she's at her family's everyday they're tight knit. Well anyways sorry for rambling but I'm trying to avoid big amazing I guess this is more about getting info that's beneficial in helping with my decision
