Unlikely. How did she attempt to kill herself and why wasn't she successful? How far along in the pregnancy did the attempt occur? Apparently you didn't even know about it, so it probably wasn't much of a try. Right?
That statement makes no sense. The term pro-life doesn't have any legal meaning in referring to a state (nor do the terms "pro-death," "anti-life," "anti-death," "pro-choice" or "anti-choice"). All of those terms are typically used to describe a person's opinion about the issue of abortion. States don't have such opinions.
What (if anything) do you
want to do? Apparently your wife's attempt was unsuccessful and your child was born and was healthy. Right? You could, of course, report the matter to the local police or prosecuting attorney as a
possible battery of an unborn child. However, I think this is something that they wouldn't want to touch with a ten foot pole -- especially since the applicable statute of limitations appears to be four years. I suppose you could also discuss with your divorce attorney whether you could use it in connection with the custody and visitation aspects of your divorce. You should think long and hard about how that could backfire on you. In particular, how would a criminal prosecution of the child's mother be in the child's best interests? Or is that not your concern and you just want to be vindictive?
It is not necessarily true that a successful suicide attempt also would have killed the fetus.