Is this really true?

[tigger22472]

Nothing new with him really. He threatened the psychologist that he would bring charges against him if he told me any of his test results. What the jackass failed to realize it that the dr has to file everything with the courts, so I will see them anyway. Eventually, I will have to have sessions with msdad. That's not going to be fun. It takes a BIG MAN to put a 9 year old in therapy! He's got to be so proud of himself. But him and my son have a connection, "he can feel it" that's one on the many dumb things he said in court.

OMG.. I swear, I don't mean to laugh but I have learned over time that I just go to court hearings for entertainment value. Last time I went to court with my ex over arrears he expected me to give him the kids SS# supposably to put them on his life insurance. The judge just looked at me b/c she knew the adoption was finalized because he brought it up the last time. I told her that I was not comfortable giving them to him and that considering they were no longer legally his children I was not obligated to do so. She looked at him and told him it was my choice and under his breath he was calling me all sorts of names so next time I'm taking copies of the statutes so he leaves the judge and DA alone. My husband said to let him keep pissing them off (he's been told they aren't in control of anything like that) but I actually feel bad for the judge and DA. Oh, and the best part was I offered a deal on the arrears. I just want a court order followed (hasn't been the entire 6 years more than 4 weeks in a row). I told him that if it's followed the way it is now for 6 months, I'll drop the weekly by half and if it's followed for 6 months I'll drop all arrears I'm allowed to... so for like 2,000$ over a year it can go from 22,000 to 3,500 and his answer was not until it was in writing.... HELLO!!! You're under court order, you HAVE to pay it or face sanctions!!

Penny, my point is they will pull anything they can and say whatever. Keep your head up and know that when you're in front of the judge they believe you. Msdads record speaks for itself. Judges aren't stupid.

 

[Zephyr]

OMG.. I swear, I don't mean to laugh but I have learned over time that I just go to court hearings for entertainment value. Last time I went to court with my ex over arrears he expected me to give him the kids SS# supposably to put them on his life insurance. The judge just looked at me b/c she knew the adoption was finalized because he brought it up the last time. I told her that I was not comfortable giving them to him and that considering they were no longer legally his children I was not obligated to do so. She looked at him and told him it was my choice and under his breath he was calling me all sorts of names so next time I'm taking copies of the statutes so he leaves the judge and DA alone. My husband said to let him keep pissing them off (he's been told they aren't in control of anything like that) but I actually feel bad for the judge and DA. Oh, and the best part was I offered a deal on the arrears. I just want a court order followed (hasn't been the entire 6 years more than 4 weeks in a row). I told him that if it's followed the way it is now for 6 months, I'll drop the weekly by half and if it's followed for 6 months I'll drop all arrears I'm allowed to... so for like 2,000$ over a year it can go from 22,000 to 3,500 and his answer was not until it was in writing.... HELLO!!! You're under court order, you HAVE to pay it or face sanctions!!

Penny, my point is they will pull anything they can and say whatever. Keep your head up and know that when you're in front of the judge they believe you. Msdads record speaks for itself. Judges aren't stupid.

I wonder if she could print his obnoxious posts from here and use them to show how he wants to use the kid as a tool, wonder what the judge would think of his heartfelt connection then? probably not but it's interest to ponder the outcome

 

[penny4u]

Some men are such tools! I would have taken your offer and ran with it if I were him!

We go back to court in Dec. for a new Child Support figure...looking forward to that one, since his income mysteriously dropped about 30,000 in the past year. (his daddy owns the company) So that should be interesting.

 

[penny4u]

Wouldn't there be a hard time proving they were his posts?

 

[tigger22472]

Wouldn't there be a hard time proving they were his posts?

If you e-mail me (redid my computer AGAIN and lost it again... really need to write them down..lol) I'll tell how it might not be so hard

 

[penny4u]

Hmmm interesting. I will send you another email...YES write it down! lol

I don't know though, I told my attorney, and he looked at some of them that I printed out and said, "These are pretty much everything he's already admitted to", and wasn't interested in taking it any further. I think I told you, my attorney is no bull$hit kind of guy. We get along sometimes, but he's very arrogant. But he's the best around here. So I think I'll deal with him!! I have attorney's in my family (not family law) and they all say that not many attorney's like to go up against him. Msdad's attorney tries to settle everything to not go into the court room. He's the highest priced around here, but hey, I'd sell my soul to protect my son.