Joint Custody?

[mistoffolees]

I don't know what you think I am asking for.

It's clear what you're asking for. You want to reduced Dad's time and increase Mom's time.

You seem to be making a lot of assumptions. I am just trying to understand how this all works and hopefully be able to help answer some of my fiance's questions with your help.

I'll be happy to answer your fiancee's questions. Have her sign up with her own account.

I said 'mostly the new husband' to be clear that it was me that was writing the posts. She is the one with all the questions. I am curious too so I have a few questions of my own.

Apparently "you don't have any rights and legally you are not involved" is too complicated for you. What part would you like to have explained further?

I am fairly new to the custody thing and

No, you're not. You are NOT PART OF THE CUSTODY THING. It does not involve you. You have no more rights to custody or being involved in custodial decisions for that child than I do.

would like to help my fiance fill in the gaps of law knowledge that may be confusing.

There's nothing confusing about it - other than your bizarre insistence on ignoring the advice you asked for. You can best help your fiancee by staying out of the matter so that you don't interfere with HER custodial rights. If she has questions, have her sign up and ask them.

How could my posts here on a random website be detrimental to the custody of her child? I think you are overreacting.

Fine. If you're not interested in learning, then go somewhere else.

The fact is that meddling stepparents HAVE cost people custody. And you're not even a meddling stepparent yet. For now, you're simply a meddling bedwarmer.

 

[Ohiogal]

It's clear what you're asking for. You want to reduced Dad's time and increase Mom's time.



I'll be happy to answer your fiancee's questions. Have her sign up with her own account.



Apparently "you don't have any rights and legally you are not involved" is too complicated for you. What part would you like to have explained further?



No, you're not. You are NOT PART OF THE CUSTODY THING. It does not involve you. You have no more rights to custody or being involved in custodial decisions for that child than I do.



There's nothing confusing about it - other than your bizarre insistence on ignoring the advice you asked for. You can best help your fiancee by staying out of the matter so that you don't interfere with HER custodial rights. If she has questions, have her sign up and ask them.



Fine. If you're not interested in learning, then go somewhere else.

The fact is that meddling stepparents HAVE cost people custody. And you're not even a meddling stepparent yet. For now, you're simply a meddling bedwarmer.

See, I was going to say that but figured i would just start MY weekend early.

 

[crumb]

It's clear what you're asking for. You want to reduced Dad's time and increase Mom's time.

WRONG-another assumption. Any other guesses?

I'll be happy to answer your fiancee's questions. Have her sign up with her own account.

Don't worry. We can find our information elsewhere. The poster's on this site crack me up... haha.

No, you're not. You are NOT PART OF THE CUSTODY THING. It does not involve you. You have no more rights to custody or being involved in custodial decisions for that child than I do.

I didn't say I was part of the custody thing. You read way too far into things. I would like to be informed and that is all.

Fine. If you're not interested in learning, then go somewhere else.

That is ALL I am trying to do, but you seem more interested in assuming what my intentions are. You seem to be saying if all I wanted was to learn that you would answer my questions. I think we all know that isn't true

The fact is that meddling stepparents HAVE cost people custody. And you're not even a meddling stepparent yet. For now, you're simply a meddling bedwarmer.

Haha. This is all too funny. You don't even have to answer any more of my questions. I will do my research elsewhere. This just seemed like a good place to get some answers quickly.
Although I am enjoying getting you all worked up. haha
But just so you can sleep tonight... I know my place and I won't meddle. Also, I will sleep in my own bed tonight.

 

[Silverplum]

As usual, it's been a pleasure dealing with a 3rd party.

WRONG-another assumption. Any other guesses?



Don't worry. We can find our information elsewhere. The poster's on this site crack me up... haha.



I didn't say I was part of the custody thing. You read way too far into things. I would like to be informed and that is all.



That is ALL I am trying to do, but you seem more interested in assuming what my intentions are. You seem to be saying if all I wanted was to learn that you would answer my questions. I think we all know that isn't true



Haha. This is all too funny. You don't even have to answer any more of my questions. I will do my research elsewhere. This just seemed like a good place to get some answers quickly.
Although I am enjoying getting you all worked up. haha
But just so you can sleep tonight... I know my place and I won't meddle. Also, I will sleep in my own bed tonight.

 

[Zigner]

I know my place and I won't meddle.

Yet, here we are

Also, I will sleep in my own bed tonight.

Yes, as bedwarmers tend to do.