What is the name of your state?TX
Middle of divorce, we have temp orders in place. Anyway, we married 11 years ago and at the time she had a 2 year old son. She moved out in May/05, leaving her son and our three girls with me. In Aug/05 she took her son back to live with her parents about 400 miles away. I have had no contact with him since then (as I am the big bad daddy now). Anyway our open enrollment was in Nov/05 and I had to make the decision whether to continue him on my health insurance. I was told by stbx that her parents were going to be adding him, and we discussed it no more. Anyway, yesterday she asked for his new ID card. I told her he didn't have one, I dropped him as he no longer lived with me, he is not a dependent of mine and that she said her parents were going to insure him. She FREAKED OUT! She went off on me like a noon whislte. How I was such a horrible father, that I could claim him on our taxes, but I couldn't cover him on my insurance, etc... She didn't seem to understand that he no longer lived with us (me), he was not legaly my dependent. etc.. She was furious and said that we are still married (of course she lives with her new fiance) and in the divorce paperwork that I couldn't drop, cancel insurance, etc... He is not involved in the divorce as he is not a child between us, only the 3 kids are listed. Am I in the wrong here? And, this is just the kind of little crap I deal with. We had a vaccum that I had bought, ended up taking it back as it didn't work that well. I asked my parents to buy me another type for Christamas. when she found out about this she wanted to know what I did with the money. How once again I wasn't allowed to sell anything, buy anything, return anything, etc... Even though I have a list from her of all the things she wanted from the house, that she took while I was out of town.
Middle of divorce, we have temp orders in place. Anyway, we married 11 years ago and at the time she had a 2 year old son. She moved out in May/05, leaving her son and our three girls with me. In Aug/05 she took her son back to live with her parents about 400 miles away. I have had no contact with him since then (as I am the big bad daddy now). Anyway our open enrollment was in Nov/05 and I had to make the decision whether to continue him on my health insurance. I was told by stbx that her parents were going to be adding him, and we discussed it no more. Anyway, yesterday she asked for his new ID card. I told her he didn't have one, I dropped him as he no longer lived with me, he is not a dependent of mine and that she said her parents were going to insure him. She FREAKED OUT! She went off on me like a noon whislte. How I was such a horrible father, that I could claim him on our taxes, but I couldn't cover him on my insurance, etc... She didn't seem to understand that he no longer lived with us (me), he was not legaly my dependent. etc.. She was furious and said that we are still married (of course she lives with her new fiance) and in the divorce paperwork that I couldn't drop, cancel insurance, etc... He is not involved in the divorce as he is not a child between us, only the 3 kids are listed. Am I in the wrong here? And, this is just the kind of little crap I deal with. We had a vaccum that I had bought, ended up taking it back as it didn't work that well. I asked my parents to buy me another type for Christamas. when she found out about this she wanted to know what I did with the money. How once again I wasn't allowed to sell anything, buy anything, return anything, etc... Even though I have a list from her of all the things she wanted from the house, that she took while I was out of town.