stealth2
Under the Radar Member
Actually, his child and your children are being punished for the choice HE made in having sex with this woman, and the choice YOU made for marrying him. Additionally, the choice that was made not to ask for a CS review when his income increased. Despite everything you've said, he must have known that $100/mo was not reasonable support for him to be paying. Yet he chose to ignore that and go ahead an commit to purchasing a home.My OPINION (and I know "I" don't count) is that someone living as she does, making the choices she does, and gaming the system as she does SUCKS royally and WE are being punished because SHE refuses to work - something WE have no control over, but have to pay the price for.
Yeah, she doesn't sound like a stellar individual, but the both of you chose to be stuck with her. So blaming her isn't very productive.