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Ukiah
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Hi all!
Sorry I haven't updated you on our case sooner - but I've been really busy!!
My BF and I split up, after he told me he couldn't handle all the court issues and didn't want me to go for custody of my daughter - basically he was jealous of the fact that she came first.
I moved back to the rinky dink little town to be closer to my Daughter, after my Ex told me that if I were closer, he'd be willing to do shared custody (week to week).
We went to court mid September and I was awarded Joint Legal/ Joint Physical Custody... The Evaluator went with "Stupid's" proposal of year to year physical custody (when I was living 100 miles north of my daughter). The Evaluator recommended that the first year, our daughter would remain with Stupid, and then the next year she would be with me, for the third year we would have to decide who would have her (which means we'd end up back in court because he's too much into controlling everything and doesn't want to pay child support).
I moved back at the begining of this month (Oct) and just started a new job today.
I've been trying to get my X to sit down and work out a fesible schedule for parenting time - but he seems to be "Busy" (How convenient), but I figure as long as we don't have an agreement for bi-weekely shared parenting time, I'll have my daughter residing with me primarily next school year.
Our case is going to be sent back to the old county (the one we both are in now), and I have to ask the CSEA to recuse themselves due to conflict because "Stupid's" wife works in that office - supposedly doing accounting....
Anyways, I don't want to make this too long.... BUT IAAL, maestro, if you happen to read this.. could you please tell me the process which I need get the CSEA to recuse themselves from the case? Form#? Do I start the process?
That's about it for now...
Ukiah
Sorry I haven't updated you on our case sooner - but I've been really busy!!
My BF and I split up, after he told me he couldn't handle all the court issues and didn't want me to go for custody of my daughter - basically he was jealous of the fact that she came first.
I moved back to the rinky dink little town to be closer to my Daughter, after my Ex told me that if I were closer, he'd be willing to do shared custody (week to week).
We went to court mid September and I was awarded Joint Legal/ Joint Physical Custody... The Evaluator went with "Stupid's" proposal of year to year physical custody (when I was living 100 miles north of my daughter). The Evaluator recommended that the first year, our daughter would remain with Stupid, and then the next year she would be with me, for the third year we would have to decide who would have her (which means we'd end up back in court because he's too much into controlling everything and doesn't want to pay child support).
I moved back at the begining of this month (Oct) and just started a new job today.
I've been trying to get my X to sit down and work out a fesible schedule for parenting time - but he seems to be "Busy" (How convenient), but I figure as long as we don't have an agreement for bi-weekely shared parenting time, I'll have my daughter residing with me primarily next school year.
Our case is going to be sent back to the old county (the one we both are in now), and I have to ask the CSEA to recuse themselves due to conflict because "Stupid's" wife works in that office - supposedly doing accounting....
Anyways, I don't want to make this too long.... BUT IAAL, maestro, if you happen to read this.. could you please tell me the process which I need get the CSEA to recuse themselves from the case? Form#? Do I start the process?
That's about it for now...
Ukiah