dj, you crazy jackass.
I have talked to other landlords and attorneys about your postings about New York, and every agrees you are full of beans.
This is not an illegal stipulation. You haven't got any judgement or education, and you cant recognize a deadbeat when you see one.
Joans didn't pay her rent and she was evicted. The landlord was able to hurry up the procedure by offering a deal that someone like joans couldn't refuse, namely free rent when she couldn't afford any rent at all. So Joans took the deal (willingly) and now she doesn't want to deliver on her part.
She is accustomed to whining for everything in her life, and wanting other people to pay her way, and you need the ego boost to be the hero who can tell her how to get out of her mess.
Do you really think that someone with my education and experience doesn't understand how people (landlords and tenants alike) cheat, with and without rent control? Do you think that I don't understand about rent controls across the country, even if I don't know all of the details? From your world view its a big step. Those of us who make a good living out of dealing with these problems have already an understanding as well as ways of dealing with these problems and avoiding them.
Do you really think that I don't know both landlords and eviction lawyers in New York, or who practice here in the winter? Do you think I haven't shown them your postings? Do you think that any educated person doesn't come to the conclusion that you are disturbed, and even make educated inferences about the basis of your problems?
You are so clearly full of beans.
Joans cannot overturn her stipulated judgement. That is not to say that if the landlord was really holding her children for ransom, and threatening bodily harm to them that the question of examining any possible duress wouldn't get a hearing? But Joans isn't going to have her stipulated judgement overturned, because there is no reason to do that. She took the quid and won't give the quo, and she's going be be evicted in June if she doesn't leave by herself. Even in New York, because the landlord is entitled to have his property back, and Joans even agreed to it. The judge has already ruled, and ordered the eviction, with her agreement. Even New York courts will do it.
I don't think that you have ever been in the New York courts.