I'm in Washington state, Kitsap County. Temporary Family Law orders were filed on 8/4/17 and I've lived separately since 8/11/17. Am I legally separated or do I need to file something - a motion for an order etc to have this be official? I need to be legally separated to take my wife off as beneficiary of my retirement funds. I also can get her signature to accomplish the same thing, but the legal separation status seems like it would be useful in other things as well.