Also, although we live in iowa, the case is from California.
I know you guys are all trying to give me good advice but I didn't come here for that, I have a mom, sisters, girlfriends, etc. for that. I came here for legal advice. Thank you to the person who finally answered the question I asked.
Although you guys are all assuming he is a deadbeat, that is simply not the case. No one said he didn't plan on paying it in the future because he did. When I said $3000 isn't that much in the scheme of things, I said that because it is really only a few months payments. California has very strict laws regarding child support. A person losing there job and getting behind there bills can happen to anyone, even the custodial parent. That is what welfare is for. A person can't really get on welfare to pay for their child support though, can they? So basically if you have custody of the child and run into hard times you can just apply for welfare to help you out but not so if you are just supposed to pay child support. Even though both things are supposed to be for kids.
And yes, about half the states in our country have laws that protect creditors (besides the IRS, and only the IRS) from seizing the funds owed by one person from a jointly held account. They aren't allowed to take something that one person owes from what is owned by two people. Unfortunately neither Iowa or California have those laws. I was just trying to see of anyone knows a way around this.