Hello, I am from Maryland, and the Life Insurance policy I am talking about was made in Virginia I believe.
Basically, I was in a homosexual relationship with someone, and we broke up. He died recently-- and left me as 65% beneficiary on the policy. Now, for some background information, on May 6th, I sent him some text messages saying that I didn't want to be friends with him anymore because I realized he's not really a genuine person. He died May 11th. They had his funeral without consulting me, and me nor any of my family were able to attend because they rushed it so fast and we have no transportation at the moment.
Now, he has told me that if I don't come to a compromise and pay about $4000 for funeral costs, he has contacted his attorney and is going to contest me on the policy so I receive nothing. He said that he has copy's of the SMS messages I sent, and will use those in a personal / legal battle until he gets this taken care of.
I have no clue what to do. Is he bluffing? I don't know much about law or life insurance policies in general, but I don't feel I should be obligated financially to pay for his funeral when I had absolutely nothing to do with the arrangements or anything like that. Legally, is there anything he can do? What should I do?
p.s. He had no will, so it's just the life insurance policy.
Thanks in advance.
Basically, I was in a homosexual relationship with someone, and we broke up. He died recently-- and left me as 65% beneficiary on the policy. Now, for some background information, on May 6th, I sent him some text messages saying that I didn't want to be friends with him anymore because I realized he's not really a genuine person. He died May 11th. They had his funeral without consulting me, and me nor any of my family were able to attend because they rushed it so fast and we have no transportation at the moment.
Now, he has told me that if I don't come to a compromise and pay about $4000 for funeral costs, he has contacted his attorney and is going to contest me on the policy so I receive nothing. He said that he has copy's of the SMS messages I sent, and will use those in a personal / legal battle until he gets this taken care of.
I have no clue what to do. Is he bluffing? I don't know much about law or life insurance policies in general, but I don't feel I should be obligated financially to pay for his funeral when I had absolutely nothing to do with the arrangements or anything like that. Legally, is there anything he can do? What should I do?
p.s. He had no will, so it's just the life insurance policy.
Thanks in advance.