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msgray
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What is the name of your state? hawaii
This may not be in the most proffesional terms but I think any human with some heart will get the gist of it. I will also add that I am unemployed (disability) legally cannot drive, and total monthly income is under $500- Please give any advice or thoughts that you think may be helpful.
I have been with my new boyfriend for just under three months. Living with him. I found out about three weeks ago that I am pregnant. I am 6 weeks along. I have two children from my previous marriage... and I miss them so much. I want to get away from this relationship/man. But I am scared... sooo scared. I actually broke up with him last thursday but begged to come back the following monday...so here I am , back again. I have this fear of being alone (without a man/spouse). My parents support me with all theyre' hearts... but I came back here despite my anxiety about this man! He told me (many times and continues to ) that if I decide to leave him that he will fight me in court for full custody of the baby, starting proceedings as soon as the child is born. He also gave me a lovely option of legally signing the child over to him. He is a felon and has three more years of probation. His ex-wife and last girlfriend both have restraining orders against him. I have been having nightmares... of his friends holding me down and him cutting the baby out of me... (among other horrible dreams). It seems so simple to my friends, "Just leave!" I am scared ... need advice.
This may not be in the most proffesional terms but I think any human with some heart will get the gist of it. I will also add that I am unemployed (disability) legally cannot drive, and total monthly income is under $500- Please give any advice or thoughts that you think may be helpful.
I have been with my new boyfriend for just under three months. Living with him. I found out about three weeks ago that I am pregnant. I am 6 weeks along. I have two children from my previous marriage... and I miss them so much. I want to get away from this relationship/man. But I am scared... sooo scared. I actually broke up with him last thursday but begged to come back the following monday...so here I am , back again. I have this fear of being alone (without a man/spouse). My parents support me with all theyre' hearts... but I came back here despite my anxiety about this man! He told me (many times and continues to ) that if I decide to leave him that he will fight me in court for full custody of the baby, starting proceedings as soon as the child is born. He also gave me a lovely option of legally signing the child over to him. He is a felon and has three more years of probation. His ex-wife and last girlfriend both have restraining orders against him. I have been having nightmares... of his friends holding me down and him cutting the baby out of me... (among other horrible dreams). It seems so simple to my friends, "Just leave!" I am scared ... need advice.