marrying someone who owes back child support

[brisgirl825]

It is no laughing matter when the klids get nothing from this freakin deadbeat. Do the math.

I didn't mean that the kids' situation was a laughing matter. I simply meant that the way in which Singlemom described OP as being the "sugar momma" was humorous.

Sadly this is happens too often. Just the other day a CP was here talking about the ex being $100k in arrears.

Sometimes humor is good respite, when hearing about all the kids who seem to not have anyone looking out for them. These baords can get to be too much at times.

 

[HomeGuru]

I didn't mean that the kids' situation was a laughing matter. I simply meant that the way in which Singlemom described OP as being the "sugar momma" was humorous.

Sadly this is happens too often. Just the other day a CP was here talking about the ex being $100k in arrears.

Sometimes humor is good respite, when hearing about all the kids who seem to not have anyone looking out for them. These baords can get to be too much at times.

**A: yes I know what you meant. Happy Holidays.

 

[brisgirl825]

**A: yes I know what you meant. Happy Holidays.

Happy Holidays to you too!

 

[HomeGuru]

Happy Holidays to you too!

**A: you're pretty and pretty nice for someone living in a broom closet.

 

[brisgirl825]

**A: you're pretty and pretty nice for someone living in a broom closet.

Aww shucks! I'm glad you think so!

 

[AHA]

they can take my income into consideration and raise his amount? or take it into consideration and attempt to garnish my wages? Will a pre-nup guarantee that they cant touch my wages?

But since hubby dearest have to start paying up sooner or later, it will affect the total household financial situation, in which everyone in the family is included and have to suffer the consequences.

Don't marry a deadbeat until he's got this act together, because by marrying and living with him, you will financially feel the strain regardless.

edit:

And since he can't afford to support the existing children he has, I would strongly suggest you to avoid adding more kids "under his belt".

 

[Just Blue]

**A: get out of your fairy tale lady. "He is a great guy and has a huge heart" Now what elements and criteria did you use to draw such a false conclusion?
If he owes $67K in child support; how the f can he be a great guy and have a huge heart? Why not ask his kids. Boy are you in the freakin state of denial. What is the next chapter in your fiction novel? Does the first chapter start out with "Once upon a time**************..?

"Once upon a time, in a far off land named Denial, there lived a Princess named LadyBug.
Princess LadyBug loved a man named Prince Charmin......

Okay ...Who's gonna do the next line?

 

[HomeGuru]

"Once upon a time, in a far off land named Denial, there lived a Princess named LadyBug.
Princess LadyBug loved a man named Prince Charmin......

and the Prince was CEO of a toilet paper factory**************

 

[Just Blue]

"Once upon a time, in a far off land named Denial, there lived a Princess named LadyBug.
Princess LadyBug loved a man named Prince Charmin......

and the Prince was CEO of a toilet paper factory**************

Good! Good! Okay now the next line.....anyone??

 

[poeypooh]

The police came to visit Prince Charmin one day, so he decided he had no choice but to run away. Support my kids? No Way! I'll find me a sugar momma and she can pay my way.

 

[Just Blue]

The police came to visit Prince Charmin one day, so he decided he had no choice but to run away. Support my kids? No Way! I'll find me a sugar momma and she can pay my way.

Now we are rollin! ....Next Line**************.....

 

[brisgirl825]

Good! Good! Okay now the next line.....anyone??

He was the CEO of a toilet paper factory and he'd be damned if the ex got any of his hard-earned money....

 

[justmom611]

What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? CA

I know some of you may question my decision to marry him-but aside from his child support debt, he is a great guy and has a huge heart. He feels defeated. How can he possibly pay all that money back @ 10% interest per month?

Any suggestions re: a pre-nup or ways to not get my income involved?

I would advise you to run as fast as you can and get away from this man. My ex is one of these deadbeats who lives in CA and owes tens of thousands in back support. After we divorced, he disappeared and stopped paying his child support. I recently learned that he now has another (younger) child that he also does not see or support..and he now owes his ex girlfriend a large amount of arrears. If you plan on having kids with this guy and ever split up, be prepared to support your kids on your own because your boyfriend has already shown that he is not a responsible parent.

jm