Ohiogal- I had asked in my original post "Also, how will things be handled with the accusations against my son? In an incident that allegedly happened roughly 8 years ago, what is the process of investigating and proving or disproving what my grandson said my son did to him?" Can you give me any insight on this?LD got it. I was reading it as the 12 year old was then an infant or toddler. That would post a legal problem for the uncle.