Thank you so much CASA for your valuable suggestions. Everything that I have been reading supports what you stated in your response to my post. I appreciate your help. I am educated in the area of social work, and I am licensed here in CA, but this process, family law, is very overwhelming and intimidating for me. I've done so much to file and serve her attorney. However, I feel there is so much more that I don't know. I am in the process of finding a lawyer.