I know some STEPS are just plain evil (i kno i had one) so i would never ever be mean and evil to my (step)KIDS!!They love me and i them so whats the big deal if we use titles that YOU dont agree with!! I just wish the bitter EX"s (ON THIS BOARD) would just get over it!!! I kno they have a mother and i know i will never be her...why? because i would never take a broomstick or belt to my daughter (that was her REAL mom)...some of you people are just twisted... you would probably love to see HER (the real mom or chis brown in this situation) get the kids just because shes the REAL mom. And no the court order didn't say ME but hes my husband so its automatically WE.This is one of the EXACT reasons why steps are so disliked.
They get some holier then thou attitude and think that they are the mom.
I have news for you, idiot.. no matter what you do or where you go, those children have a mother, and she is not you and you will never be her. With your attitude they may come to resent you as adults, hell, maybe even sooner.
Maybe one day karma will pay you a visit, after you have a child and some other woman decides she is their mother once dad moves on from you.
And I highly doubt the court order has YOU listed as a person who HAS anything.
Karma has visited me . I have a 16yr old son who has a stepmom who he loves very much...I have no problem with him calling her mom...she is a mom to him when hes with them and even when hes not...I apprieciate that she loves my son like hes hers...THATS A GOOD THING PEOPLE