What is the name of your state? California:
The mother of my daughter has done many things that I consider as being mentally abusive to our 4 year old but it seems as if my voice is not being heard. My ex has done outrageous things such as giving our daughter home drug testing, give our daughter beer, forcing our daughter to bath with her, told our daughter in my presence that my house was hell and that “Jesus will save her” once visitation with me was over (crying hysterically while stating this), she has posted flyers of me with my picture on it calling me trash, she sends me vicious letters calling me many things such as a child molester (which is untrue), she has made false police reports stating that I threatened to kill after I served her with court papers stating in the police report that she only called because her attorney advised her to, she has called the police to have our daughter removed in the middle of a visits and when I showed the police the court order they simply stated that this is a civil matter and since she is the custodial parent I had to immediately turn over my daughter maternal grandfather (who she has not seen in two years) until the mother could come from out of state to retrieve her and if I refused I would be arrested for kidnapping, she has claimed to the judge that the mediators lies about things she says in mediation sessions in his reports, she has uncontrollable outburst in courts which is provable by the court transcript, she has withheld visitation, phone calls, residential location, medical information and school information and this is just the icing on the cake. When this is reported to the courts, nothing happens. I can deal with the negative things that she does to me because I am an adult but my daughter is starting to regurgitate these negative and false statements which hurts. When ever in court my daughter’s mother gets verbally chastised by the judge but she continues to do the same things. The courts have even aloud her to relocate across many state lines, 1700 miles away. I have applied for change of custody but have been told that it would detrimental to our daughter to remove her from her mother who she has resided with for four years. I know for a fact that she has used drugs in the past and has had mental evaluations but I have to prove it to the judge in order to subpoena her medical records. My question is how can I prove that she is mentally unstable so that the judge will sign the subpoena? And are there any other legal avenues that I should be pursuing? I love my daughter very much and am very concerned about her safety!What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state?
The mother of my daughter has done many things that I consider as being mentally abusive to our 4 year old but it seems as if my voice is not being heard. My ex has done outrageous things such as giving our daughter home drug testing, give our daughter beer, forcing our daughter to bath with her, told our daughter in my presence that my house was hell and that “Jesus will save her” once visitation with me was over (crying hysterically while stating this), she has posted flyers of me with my picture on it calling me trash, she sends me vicious letters calling me many things such as a child molester (which is untrue), she has made false police reports stating that I threatened to kill after I served her with court papers stating in the police report that she only called because her attorney advised her to, she has called the police to have our daughter removed in the middle of a visits and when I showed the police the court order they simply stated that this is a civil matter and since she is the custodial parent I had to immediately turn over my daughter maternal grandfather (who she has not seen in two years) until the mother could come from out of state to retrieve her and if I refused I would be arrested for kidnapping, she has claimed to the judge that the mediators lies about things she says in mediation sessions in his reports, she has uncontrollable outburst in courts which is provable by the court transcript, she has withheld visitation, phone calls, residential location, medical information and school information and this is just the icing on the cake. When this is reported to the courts, nothing happens. I can deal with the negative things that she does to me because I am an adult but my daughter is starting to regurgitate these negative and false statements which hurts. When ever in court my daughter’s mother gets verbally chastised by the judge but she continues to do the same things. The courts have even aloud her to relocate across many state lines, 1700 miles away. I have applied for change of custody but have been told that it would detrimental to our daughter to remove her from her mother who she has resided with for four years. I know for a fact that she has used drugs in the past and has had mental evaluations but I have to prove it to the judge in order to subpoena her medical records. My question is how can I prove that she is mentally unstable so that the judge will sign the subpoena? And are there any other legal avenues that I should be pursuing? I love my daughter very much and am very concerned about her safety!What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state?