sbrown200047501
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? Indiana
I have perm. guardianship of a 5yo boy.He was suppose to be my cousins son then when my guardianship went through the alleged father asked for a DNA test and it turned out he was not the father.My husband and I raise this child as our own and have since Aug. 2001.P receives medicaid through the state and CS from his mother(WHEN she pays).After my cousin turned out not to be the father the state left his name of the BC.Well Friday I received a motion to intervene by the CS Office,I callled them to see what it was about and they said they are getting a court order for the mom to give possible fathers names.How do I stop this I am very concerned with what will happen if one of her many "friends" turn out to be his BIO Dad.
We have raised him almost 3yrs and do not want to loose him now.
We can not adopt him as his mother wont agree(she hasnt seen him since feb of '03),she has seen him 3-4 times since we got him.She has 5 kids incl. P all with diff. people having guardianship(hasnt seen her oldest 3 in 10yrs).But we were told her paying CS prevents us from adopting him as it is contact.Is this true?We would give up the CS to adopt him.
TIA
Stacey
I have perm. guardianship of a 5yo boy.He was suppose to be my cousins son then when my guardianship went through the alleged father asked for a DNA test and it turned out he was not the father.My husband and I raise this child as our own and have since Aug. 2001.P receives medicaid through the state and CS from his mother(WHEN she pays).After my cousin turned out not to be the father the state left his name of the BC.Well Friday I received a motion to intervene by the CS Office,I callled them to see what it was about and they said they are getting a court order for the mom to give possible fathers names.How do I stop this I am very concerned with what will happen if one of her many "friends" turn out to be his BIO Dad.
We have raised him almost 3yrs and do not want to loose him now.
We can not adopt him as his mother wont agree(she hasnt seen him since feb of '03),she has seen him 3-4 times since we got him.She has 5 kids incl. P all with diff. people having guardianship(hasnt seen her oldest 3 in 10yrs).But we were told her paying CS prevents us from adopting him as it is contact.Is this true?We would give up the CS to adopt him.
TIA
Stacey