I usually don't walk this line...but how would mom know if he moved? And, if mom found out, what would she do?
Perhaps now is the time to start posting pics of the new place and how much you love your new apartment (house, whatever), etc. That might make mom pop up out of the woodwork.
this is what ive been thinking.
consider the following
im already dealing with someone that will not answer a court summons, or visit the child, or call, provide support. she emails me occasionally but i have told her to call me and she has my in county address. my own logic has been if she cant answer a court summons , i cant answer an email. but i have not denied her or her family visitation, just met with her grandmother infact last weekend, who drove from maine.
how would she even know i moved, we have no friends in common and i dont broadcast that stuff over facebook or twitter.
On the off chance she did find out (that i simply moved, aside from out of the county), given her unmotivated involvement in her childs life. would she even do anything?
if she even did find out i moved i would give her an in county address, if not my old address , where my friend owns the house (isnt going anywhere). so on the rare chance she did find out i moved, there is an even rarer chance she will know it was out of county and even rarer that she (being unmotivated and uninvolved) will do anything.
but on the off chance she finds out i moved, and found out , it was out of the county and decided to go back to court, i also need to weight the consequences
i guess these are my thoughts