What is the name of your state? New Mexico
In 2002, I bought a property with both of my parents. It had one building (cinderblock restaurant 3500 sq. ft.). We began to build another (metal shell 5000 sq ft.). In Nov. 2004 I married. At that time, the "new building" had passed foundation inspection. And, the metal shell and roof were in place. In fact, we put colored paper inside the walls and held the wedding inside the metal building. After the date of marriage, the building was finished (drywall, top out inspection, plumbing inspection, hvac, gas, electrical inspections).
I divorced in 2014. For all those years, my own business (not my parents', not my husband's) paid the mortgage on the property. But, my parents' names were on the loans, deed, and on the insurance. My husband's name is not on anything.
It was asserted by an accountant that I owe him half the value of the metal building (and nothing else on the property), since I got it after we married. The judge seems to believe this as well. Below are the questions I need answers to. Please answer any or all that you can. Thanks so much.
1. For purposes of the divorce, is the property mine, half mine, or a third mine?
2. Is the idea that I owe him half the value of the metal building and nothing else on the property reasonable? (at all likely to be a judge's final decision)
3. Does it matter how far along the metal building was when we married? (Can I reasonably assert I already owned some percentage of the current asset before we married? I have detailed records of when I paid for various construction-related tasks.)
4. To put a current value on the metal building, is it reasonable for me to take a recent appraisal on the total property and split it the same way our county tax assessor splits it? (if assessor has 43% of the assessed total property value for the metal building, I use 43% of the total appraisal as a value for the metal building)
5. What is a reasonable way for me to assign a portion of the total remaining mortgage owed to the metal building?
In 2002, I bought a property with both of my parents. It had one building (cinderblock restaurant 3500 sq. ft.). We began to build another (metal shell 5000 sq ft.). In Nov. 2004 I married. At that time, the "new building" had passed foundation inspection. And, the metal shell and roof were in place. In fact, we put colored paper inside the walls and held the wedding inside the metal building. After the date of marriage, the building was finished (drywall, top out inspection, plumbing inspection, hvac, gas, electrical inspections).
I divorced in 2014. For all those years, my own business (not my parents', not my husband's) paid the mortgage on the property. But, my parents' names were on the loans, deed, and on the insurance. My husband's name is not on anything.
It was asserted by an accountant that I owe him half the value of the metal building (and nothing else on the property), since I got it after we married. The judge seems to believe this as well. Below are the questions I need answers to. Please answer any or all that you can. Thanks so much.
1. For purposes of the divorce, is the property mine, half mine, or a third mine?
2. Is the idea that I owe him half the value of the metal building and nothing else on the property reasonable? (at all likely to be a judge's final decision)
3. Does it matter how far along the metal building was when we married? (Can I reasonably assert I already owned some percentage of the current asset before we married? I have detailed records of when I paid for various construction-related tasks.)
4. To put a current value on the metal building, is it reasonable for me to take a recent appraisal on the total property and split it the same way our county tax assessor splits it? (if assessor has 43% of the assessed total property value for the metal building, I use 43% of the total appraisal as a value for the metal building)
5. What is a reasonable way for me to assign a portion of the total remaining mortgage owed to the metal building?