As I studied what all you helpful people wrote, I'm again stumped. It seems most likely that most of you believe I owe him 1/6 of the appreciation of the total asset, not 1/2 of the metal building. But, the judge seems to believe I owe him 1/2 of the metal building (but, she seems to see this issue differently at different court dates). So, I must decide if I argue for truth and completely appeal or make my life simpler and go to the reconsideration hearing prepared to claim I already owned x% of the metal building and argue the value the particular attorney puts on the building. (He took an appraisal and alloted the same amount the county tax assessor does to the land, then divided the rest between the "old" cinderblock and "new" metal building based on square footage whereas my side claims the land should be considered worth more than the tax assessor values it since their total doesn't match the appraisal. BTW I don't mean what they are taxing me on, I got a copy of the "Marshall Swift" analysis that the county tax assessor uses.)
It was income from my business, that I had before marriage, that paid all mortgage payments on this land during the years we were married. But, if I understand everyone's posts correctly, you say that doesn't make my parents have less of a share or change this asset into more my ex's. Right?