What is the name of your state? Pennsylvania :very mad:
My husband told me on Christmas that he wanted a divorce. He's been seeing the other woman for a year. I had a ruff year. In March I had total knee replacement that got screwed up and now I can't walk or drive. I have no job or money. Nothing. I am devistated. We have been married 23 years and together 5 years before that. We've been together day and night so long that now I'm lost. I contacted 7 different places for help with no success. Even a suicide hotline couldn't help. I have been spending alot of time in my home, which is like a prison. My friends don't have the time to help and my family is no help. In July, I lost both my parents 24 hours apart and my brother got the house and everything. I asked him if I could move in and he said yes. Now he changed his mined because he drinks and I don't and have words in the past. I resently found out I have RSD. I've been trying to get help with a malpractice suit against the nusres that moved me, a another story. The lawyer I talked to about this said I'm screwed. I can't get SSI because I haven't worked in 10 years due to my medical problems. I've been so depressed that on the 31st of Dec I tried to commit suicide. I'm thankful now that I didn't. The Lord had something to do with this, another story. So I went to welfare, my husband said he would keep paying the bills and stay in the house. He wants a No Fault divorce and keeps hassling me about it. I told him that we can't do this because of owning the house. I've called legal aid but have yet to hear anything from them. My husband is mad that I want a lawyer to help me. But I feel I have no choice. He said he would not support me and I didn't deserve anything. He just wants to get on with his life. So, what am I to do? Any suggestions would greatly help. Thank you.
Deb50
My husband told me on Christmas that he wanted a divorce. He's been seeing the other woman for a year. I had a ruff year. In March I had total knee replacement that got screwed up and now I can't walk or drive. I have no job or money. Nothing. I am devistated. We have been married 23 years and together 5 years before that. We've been together day and night so long that now I'm lost. I contacted 7 different places for help with no success. Even a suicide hotline couldn't help. I have been spending alot of time in my home, which is like a prison. My friends don't have the time to help and my family is no help. In July, I lost both my parents 24 hours apart and my brother got the house and everything. I asked him if I could move in and he said yes. Now he changed his mined because he drinks and I don't and have words in the past. I resently found out I have RSD. I've been trying to get help with a malpractice suit against the nusres that moved me, a another story. The lawyer I talked to about this said I'm screwed. I can't get SSI because I haven't worked in 10 years due to my medical problems. I've been so depressed that on the 31st of Dec I tried to commit suicide. I'm thankful now that I didn't. The Lord had something to do with this, another story. So I went to welfare, my husband said he would keep paying the bills and stay in the house. He wants a No Fault divorce and keeps hassling me about it. I told him that we can't do this because of owning the house. I've called legal aid but have yet to hear anything from them. My husband is mad that I want a lawyer to help me. But I feel I have no choice. He said he would not support me and I didn't deserve anything. He just wants to get on with his life. So, what am I to do? Any suggestions would greatly help. Thank you.
Deb50