justalayman
Senior Member
Indiana
bad situation needs lotsa info and background
* my daughter (MD) married to a-hole sil (AH) 2 1/2 years
* MD has bipolar just now getting it under control, had cysts removed from ovaries 1/18/06, Dr. thinks may have an STD (she was faithful, AH now has new lover (told to us by spurned lover of girl)
* AH did not want MD to work (AH was raised Mennonite, generally wives are subserviant)
* 1 car joint loan, title ?, debt ~$2000 (re affirmed in current BK but atty today stated MD may be able to add back in to her side of BK)(AH has taken and hid car)
* obviously in current BK status; no creditor meeting yet; (stupid kid debts)
* AH promoted Sept. to ~$60K/annual promotion from~$40k
* I believe there is a 401k ~$18k through AH work
*rented week/week cheap trailer paid til 1/28/06 AH as leasor MD as resident/occupant
* joint bank acct. $35. no other money accessible to MD
* they had been having troubles but 4-5 months ago seemed to be working out things.
*AH has insurance through work.
Here goes (and this is real folks, and yes I expect IAAL to hit me with the trailer trash stuff but I still need help)
AH works 2nd shift. Kisses MD bye Thurs. 1/27/06. Later txt mssg "I can't handle this anymore, I don't ever want to come home. MD's sister OD goes to be with MD and console. AH will not talk with MD, will only txt mssg with OD.
AH wants divorce (oh well he is an AH).
Fri. 1/28/06 I go and start packing up her stuff to bring MD to my house. Finish moving stuff Sun 1/29/06. I had changed the locks to protect remainder of MD's stuff while making multiple trips.
Monday morn. get hang-up phone call at 4 a.m.
I go to work. later ~1 p.m. LL called MD at my house. Tells her LL had to break door in MD will be responsible. Also MD will be responsible for rent through this Sat.2/4/06 (mind you only AH as lease holder) AH still had belongings in the trailer.
So here is the ???
Does AH have to maintain ins on daughter? (meds are $$$) How would this be enforced?
Can MD recieve spousal maintainance after divorce?
Can MD recieve some of AH 401k
How will this affect the BK?
Can she make AH pay for divorce?
Yes, now it is about the money the AH is a real AH to abandon MD this way.
bad situation needs lotsa info and background
* my daughter (MD) married to a-hole sil (AH) 2 1/2 years
* MD has bipolar just now getting it under control, had cysts removed from ovaries 1/18/06, Dr. thinks may have an STD (she was faithful, AH now has new lover (told to us by spurned lover of girl)
* AH did not want MD to work (AH was raised Mennonite, generally wives are subserviant)
* 1 car joint loan, title ?, debt ~$2000 (re affirmed in current BK but atty today stated MD may be able to add back in to her side of BK)(AH has taken and hid car)
* obviously in current BK status; no creditor meeting yet; (stupid kid debts)
* AH promoted Sept. to ~$60K/annual promotion from~$40k
* I believe there is a 401k ~$18k through AH work
*rented week/week cheap trailer paid til 1/28/06 AH as leasor MD as resident/occupant
* joint bank acct. $35. no other money accessible to MD
* they had been having troubles but 4-5 months ago seemed to be working out things.
*AH has insurance through work.
Here goes (and this is real folks, and yes I expect IAAL to hit me with the trailer trash stuff but I still need help)
AH works 2nd shift. Kisses MD bye Thurs. 1/27/06. Later txt mssg "I can't handle this anymore, I don't ever want to come home. MD's sister OD goes to be with MD and console. AH will not talk with MD, will only txt mssg with OD.
AH wants divorce (oh well he is an AH).
Fri. 1/28/06 I go and start packing up her stuff to bring MD to my house. Finish moving stuff Sun 1/29/06. I had changed the locks to protect remainder of MD's stuff while making multiple trips.
Monday morn. get hang-up phone call at 4 a.m.
I go to work. later ~1 p.m. LL called MD at my house. Tells her LL had to break door in MD will be responsible. Also MD will be responsible for rent through this Sat.2/4/06 (mind you only AH as lease holder) AH still had belongings in the trailer.
So here is the ???
Does AH have to maintain ins on daughter? (meds are $$$) How would this be enforced?
Can MD recieve spousal maintainance after divorce?
Can MD recieve some of AH 401k
How will this affect the BK?
Can she make AH pay for divorce?
Yes, now it is about the money the AH is a real AH to abandon MD this way.
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