Lindsey, you have been given good advice...please reread the posts and try to see the message,instead of what you consider to be rudeness.
You are obviously very young and I have something I want you to think about before you go off on your self appointed mission to prove your Mother is cheating. Your Father may not want to know, or he may already know and CHOOSES to look the other way.
If you should find irrefutable proof that your Mother is cheating.please think long and hard before presenting your evidence to your Father.If he does suspect, or even know, and has chosen to look the other way you will be forcing him to confront the affair. He will have to take a stand or lose face .
He may have already decided he does not want to confront the issue.This actually happens more than you think.
If you tell him you will force him to act on the issue, something he may have decided (on his own) not to do, and he will be put in a very awkward and embarrassing position.
You are on your high horse and so sure you are doing the right thing...please step back, take a breath, and give it some time.Marriage is a very complicated dynamic and hardly ever is just one person to blame for the disintegration of a marriage . You don't know their entire history, and there may be many things going on of which you are not aware.
Don't be so quick to take sides.
You are obviously very young and I have something I want you to think about before you go off on your self appointed mission to prove your Mother is cheating. Your Father may not want to know, or he may already know and CHOOSES to look the other way.
If you should find irrefutable proof that your Mother is cheating.please think long and hard before presenting your evidence to your Father.If he does suspect, or even know, and has chosen to look the other way you will be forcing him to confront the affair. He will have to take a stand or lose face .
He may have already decided he does not want to confront the issue.This actually happens more than you think.
If you tell him you will force him to act on the issue, something he may have decided (on his own) not to do, and he will be put in a very awkward and embarrassing position.
You are on your high horse and so sure you are doing the right thing...please step back, take a breath, and give it some time.Marriage is a very complicated dynamic and hardly ever is just one person to blame for the disintegration of a marriage . You don't know their entire history, and there may be many things going on of which you are not aware.
Don't be so quick to take sides.