Thanks, Quincy. That's exactly what I was looking for. I knew I'd seen it somewhere, yet when I searched yesterday I didn't have the correct words plugged into google.
I found Act 293 of 1968 that answers my question.
As far as the conversation of control, I'm not sure what place it has on this legal board. That being said, I'll say that I doubt anyone has control over a 17 year old. I can't put the spackle in his hand and make him apply it. I can't make him sand, paint, etc.
So I do what I do to control what I can. I start taking away things until he's made good on his promise. Yes, he did have control (shh...don't tell him, but I had veto power at any time) when we made the deal over how and when the repairs would be made. We give our kids control at age/stage appropriate levels all the time. Once he made that deal under his own control, I do what I can do to enforce it.
So again to OG's comment specifically which started this whole non-relevant discussion (You get the paycheck you think you control your son.), nope. Even when I get the paycheck, I don't control son. He can, if he chooses, come to me ready to do the work. Once it's done, I'll give him the balance of his pay. The things I can control... my reactions, my boundaries and giving him his money when the job is done or holding on to if it never gets done. Actually, I know I don't control him sooo much that I think it's entirely likely he'll never do the repair and just not mention his money. And I won't either - doesn't matter to me. His choice. He is welcome to his money at (almost) any time.
I found Act 293 of 1968 that answers my question.
As far as the conversation of control, I'm not sure what place it has on this legal board. That being said, I'll say that I doubt anyone has control over a 17 year old. I can't put the spackle in his hand and make him apply it. I can't make him sand, paint, etc.
So I do what I do to control what I can. I start taking away things until he's made good on his promise. Yes, he did have control (shh...don't tell him, but I had veto power at any time) when we made the deal over how and when the repairs would be made. We give our kids control at age/stage appropriate levels all the time. Once he made that deal under his own control, I do what I can do to enforce it.
So again to OG's comment specifically which started this whole non-relevant discussion (You get the paycheck you think you control your son.), nope. Even when I get the paycheck, I don't control son. He can, if he chooses, come to me ready to do the work. Once it's done, I'll give him the balance of his pay. The things I can control... my reactions, my boundaries and giving him his money when the job is done or holding on to if it never gets done. Actually, I know I don't control him sooo much that I think it's entirely likely he'll never do the repair and just not mention his money. And I won't either - doesn't matter to me. His choice. He is welcome to his money at (almost) any time.