No matter how many time people are warned that there are consequences ahead of time, many, like yourself only come to acknowledge that after the fact when it is too late for do overs. Good luck.robflyhawker said:Thankyou everyone for your help, mabee I should study argumentation and debate its kind of fun! I have retained a very reputable attorney to help me in this matter, it just seems to take forever and this thing is on my mind allot- again thankyou